- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I am so stressed about our upcoming wedding…I dont know what to do.
I have never been interested in a traditional wedding and that is exactly what it’s become. At first, we wanted to have a small church ceremony with family only followed by a cocktail reception with family and friends. My fiance then expressed that we cant have a reception without feeding people so we found a banquet hall and booked that. We booked it for 50 people but now have 75 people on our list.
After planning details (photographer, DJ, flowers, etc) I have begun to dread the wedding more and more. I feel that this is a day I should love and look forward to but that is not what I am finding at all. I just want to be married,. Going south or at city hall would be fine by me but my fiance wants his family there and a celebration to follow. He says i am paying too much attention to details and making this traditional by having all the typical ad-on, such as centrepeices, flowers, etc. Personally, i would avoid a wedding at all, afterall isnt marriage what it’s really about? I dont know what do.