- Angelz_love
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I like simple. I started with simple and ended up with the exact opposite. And I had 2 breakdowns in the process of making my not so simple invites.
I like simple. I started with simple and ended up with the exact opposite. And I had 2 breakdowns in the process of making my not so simple invites.
We did just the invitation, a menu and the rsvp with envelope. simple!
we had a gatefold invite with one insert which had reception infor and the online rsvp information.
My sister helped make mine. We did a simple A1 invite (pretty much the smallest size card) so we could make four from one sheet of paper, did some simple stamping, and made postcard size RSVP cards
I don’t want people not RSVPing because they didn’t know how, so I wanted to include a card. But I skipped on inner envelopes. that was too much fuss for me.
All together, we spent about $80 making 200+ invites
Pear Espresso Wedding Invitation
we did this, minus the ribbon
@indiblue: We did normal invites from a template for the ceremony and then for the reception we did this:
I did these for a friend of mine… just a simple 5 x 7 card printed front and back; invitation on the front, RSVP, Directions, Accomodations on the back. She just used these (printed at a local printer) and an envelope from cardsandpockets.com.
While I am one of those over the top invitation brides my Maid/Matron of Honor opted for the less expensive route and got hers at Michael’s. I was just there last week and they had some gorgeous and incredibly affordable DIY packets. It is worth a look and they have 20% and 40% off a single item coupons available online.
Vistaprint all the way! Their invitations are nice, they have a HUGE selection, and they are so cheap compared to the fancy frilly ones! Get on their email list and they send you discount codes. Also, if you order something smaller from them, they send you even BETTER discount codes to try and encourage you to buy more. We did save-the-date magnets and invites through them, and they matched. Envelopes are included with all their invitations. We are also doing RSVP on our website, because we refused to send out a gajillion pre-stamped post cards for people just to throw them away. We also put that they could RSVP by calling the bride or groom and put our phone numbers on there, because I think everyone has a phone if they don’t know how to get on the internet. It is always nice to receive snail mail, seems to be such a pain to send it though! So we didn’t figure people would be too disappointed by not having a little card to stick in the mail. Good luck 🙂
We went to a local print shop and had a one page invitation printed, it was simple and no muss, not traditional and not too labor intensive (we had a less than 100 day engagement, we didn’t have time to obsess over the invitations).
We did email/phone RSVPs which worked out great and only an outer envelope.
Interestingly, I didn’t have a picture of our invitation so I went to our printers website and they have ours up as a sample of that particular design 🙂 Cool. Here it is:
Thanks everyone! This is really helpful. I am glad to know others put email or website RSVPs on the invitation. I am not a big stickler for etiquette but I don’t want to come off as incredibly tacky. It sounds like alternatives to RSVP cards are common and acceptable.
Feel free to share more if anyone else wants to add theirs! I am loving seeing all the creative designs and colors.
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