(Closed) I don’t want to go dress shopping today…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@KMSull- I know its rough, I know b/c Ive been there (actually I think most of the waiting ladies have), but think of it this way, you score MAJOR good person karma vibes πŸ˜‰

 

This is what I did when I was at a bridal shower in May.My friend was all dressed up, hair done and makeup done and ripping open present after present with her big ol’ sparkly ring blinding me (ugh)…I just kept smiling and txted the Boyfriend or Best Friend, telling him how jealous I was and how I wanted a bridal shower πŸ˜‰ He said I would get it soon enough ( in his mind “soon” must mean years lol) and to enjoy the night. Anyways, the point is, I would just vent through txts and I felt better about the night, maybe try that?

Post # 4
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572 posts
Busy bee

Sounds like a plan to me but dont be too hard on yourself.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

It’s rough in waiting. Deep yoga breaths and champagne; good plan.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Sounds awesome to do the champagne glasses ((HUGS)) definitely meet him afterwards, he definitely wants to cuddle with you because he know it’s hard… i bet the look on your face is heartbreaking to him and that he’s doing everything he needs to to fix it…

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Sorry to hear your blah about everything Frown! I know how it feels…trust me…this is coming from a girl who’s three younger sibilings, too many firends to count who have all been engaged and married before her! Like Cheerful says take “deep yoga breaths”. I always try to not think about me so much and focus on their happiness…if you let it it can be contagious. Chin up love!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

(HUGS) Don’t worry…you’ll have your turn!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

awww good luck girl!  I went wedding dress shopping this past weekend for BFs Future Sister-In-Law… it was rough, but just know your time will come πŸ™‚  Enjoy the champ!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

You’re racking up major karma points right now, girl.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Good girl- you’re doing the right thing! πŸ™‚  Try to just enjoy the time with your friends; maybe think of it as just picking out a dress instead of focusing so much on the “she’s getting married but I’m not” aspect.  Good luck!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That a girl! Way to suck it up and do your part! I know it sucks, but put on a smile and pretend otherwise! Have a couple glasses before you go. And make the best of it. Secretly look for yourself and price things out! πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

fingers crossed that you allow yourself to have a good time! i think you’ll get good karma back – in fact, i know you will! and if being there makes you feel anything but happy, you can always pass along your sentiments to your Boyfriend or Best Friend but be constructive about it! my personal advice – i wouldn’t go too heavy on the drinks until it’s all over πŸ™‚

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