(Closed) I don't want to go home :( (NWR….VERY long)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2106 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You’re 22 and you have chores? Time to move out. 

Also, try saying to her, “When you nag me it makes me want to eat more junkfood.” And just ignore her after that. 

Post # 4
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It sounds like your sister really knows how to get under your skin. You have to stop reacting. If she says something negative, try to deflate the situation by saying “thanks” or “OK.” When you get emotional, you just make the situation worse by giving her power over you. 

Post # 7
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1975 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MrsBroccoli:  +1

how do you still have chores? how does your sister have chores? that is insane

Just ignore your sister and move out

Post # 9
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1975 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

sorry my net is being super slow and i wrote my comment when there were none ๐Ÿ™ i read your comment to another bee and back to me. I hope everything works out for you and I wish you luck with your sister she sounds like she is doing it because she knows it shits you try to ignore or do what i would:

sister: your killing yourself eating that hamburger

me: but death tastes so good. wanna bite *shove burger in face*

or

sister: you should loose some weight

me: *getting over the top super excited* really you know thats a GREAT idea! I could do skipping and jumping and … *insist on following her for ten minutes rambling about excersises that arent serious workouts* make sure to mention starjumps

Post # 11
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1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Jacqui90:  sorry to hear this, as someone who grew up around a lot of negative putdowns I understand how cutting and horrible they can be.  Do not believe them, everytime some says something negative like that, think to yourself, thats just your opinion and you are wrong.  I would look for ways to move out but dont leave angry and upset.

Post # 13
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

On the other hand, and I am playing devils advocate here, yes the anti depressants might be contributing to your weight gain, but the junk food addiction will definitely keep the weight on even after you stop taking them. 

My friend stopped taking her meds about 2 years ago and her JF addiction got worse and she has been told by the doctor that she needs to lose weight because she is putting herself at risk of diabetes. 

 

Your sister is just trying to look out for you, but I agree that she could probably word it better! Sorry she is being a biatch!

 

Post # 15
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7992 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

You’re 22. And living at home. And doing chores. And fighting with your sister…. Sorry if that comes across badly, but you need to get a job and move out immediately. As in, yesterday.

Don’t go home. Stay at FIs. The best way to get a job, in my experience, is to hand out flyers with your CV on them in every shop/pub/restaurant etc around where you live. Hand out 100 or so, and you’ll have a job within two or three days. So do that and get a job so you can stay at FIs for good.

Simples?

Post # 16
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Jacqui90:  

She saw a nutritionist in the beginning and she also bought a weight watchers magazine with some recipes in it. She plans all the meals she is going to have for breakfast, lunch and tea and buys only that stuff when she does her grocery shopping.

She has fruit or nuts or yoghurt for morning tea and same for in the afternoon. She has done an amazing job. She has lost nearly 20kgs do far and she has about 20 to go. She still had the occasional slip but just starts eating properly again straight away. 

 

 

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