- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
You don’t have children for other people. period. You have children for you. So if you don’t want children then you don’t want children. I’ve never understood this about people. I have friends who want kids and have kids and I have friends who don’t want kids and don’t have kids and the amount of judgment that gets laid on those child-free by choice couples is unreal. Couples with kids shake their heads and sigh mournfully about how that couple is wasting their years frivulously and never knowing real joy…
… yeah try again, that joyless couple is in the Carribean while you’re dealing with a squalling toddler. Are kids great? Yes, I think so but they are not for everybody much like cats and dogs are not for everybody.