Post # 16
I second this
I never want to be the wife that has complete control over my husband. I see so many couples (a few in my family) where the husband needs the wifes permission to do EVERYTHING, watch tv, eat a piece of cake, drink a beer, go somewhere. It is rediculous.
Post # 17
I never want to be the wife that guilts my husband for having his own/friends/interests/life!
Also, I would never want the kind of husband who would guilt me for doing the same!
Post # 18
I never want to be that wife who spends more money on herself than her kids. I never want to be that wife who shows off smugly to single people and pretends that my marriage is perfect. Marriage is a long term commitment full of love and fun but its not something to be taken lightly or treated like an expensive purchase.
Post # 19
Yes lots of women seem to do this sad really that they don’t realize they are killing their own marriage.
Post # 20
I never want to be the wife that takes her husband for granted. I never want to be the wife that lets herself go in any way as a PP mentioned
Post # 21
- Wedding: Hawksnest Cove Beach St John USVI
great topic!! I never want to be the wife that everyone tries to convince the husband is a bad influence. I got great advice the other day that never listen to someone or be around some one who puts down your spouse.
i also don’t want to be the wife that always says no. I’m analytical and great with money, but don’t want to not experience amazing times with the husband to save a few bucks.
Post # 22
I never want to be the wife that let’s one mistake out weigh all of the things he has done right.
I must admit I am struggling with this past week but I am trying to get over it.
Post # 23
I will never be the wife that stops being sexy for her husband…also, as PP said, lets herself go…
Post # 24
There is that saying that women marry men expecting them to change and men marry women hoping they won’t change.
This is why so many marriages have issues if you are marrying your husband hoping he will be a better partner after marriage you are in for a disappointment most of the time.
Post # 25
I never will be the wife that puts her husband second..
What are your thoughts on this ladies?
Husband first and then children?
Of course children are very close 2nd to the husband!
I have heard many talks about children should be first and then husband. vice versa
Post # 26
I never want to be that wife that puts her husband down in front of his friends. I know someone that does this and it is sad and cringeworthy to see how embarrassed and small it makes him look
Post # 27
I never want to be the wife who eats her husband’s last chip. 😉
Post # 28
Who never lets go of the past
Post # 29
I never want to be the wife who doesn’t want to have sex anymore.
(And I hope my health, mental and emotional well being are on my side!)
Post # 30
I never want to be the wife that takes care of her husband. It would be one thing if I stayed home, but we both have demanding careers and there is no reason for me to do anymore than 50% of the housework. We just bought a new washer and dryer and the guy said something about me doing the laundry, and I was like “oh no, he does his own laundry. he also does all of the cooking.”
Edit: Reread this and it made me sound like a bitch! For the record, I ADORE my Fiance… I just want a partnership, in every sense of the word, not just in regards to money or decision making. We are both capable of being equal partners around the house as well.