(Closed) I feel broken…and my test results proves it.

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Ugh. This is so heavy. I’m sorry. Don’t give up yet. I know that can be hard, but wait until you speak with your doctor and talk about your options. HUGE GIANT HUGS

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t know what to say honey. I am so, so so very sorry. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t know what to say but I just wanted you to know I read your post and I feel for you.  Hugs.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry for those results and how you are feeling.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am terribly, terribly sorry to read your news.  Please do not give up just yet! I can only imagine how you feel.  There is a good chance that I may never be able to have children, but I am waiting for my insurance to start up again to get more tests done. (The thought of it devastates me though).  The best I can do is to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  I wish you the absolute best.  We, as a community, will ALWAYS be here for you.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Thorpewood

I am so sorry you’re going through this!  There is some slight silver lining though.  I know you said you’ll never get to say your child acts like you but odds are, if you adopt, you will!  My boyfriend is adopted and has so many of his parents’ behaviors it’s crazy.  I know that’s absolutely no consolation to you now, but I just wanted to let you know.  I hope you and your husband get through this together.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I am so sorry the news wasn’t good. And don’t feel badly about not accepting the idea of adoption yet. Adoption is a wonderful thing, but if you’re not in a place right now where you can feel good about it, no one would ever judge you for it.

It’s not over til it’s over, and maybe not even then. Hugs big time.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

I’m so sorry hun. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and think good things for you. Miracles do happen.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m so sorry. 🙁 I can’t imagine what you must be feeling. However, I want to point out that domestic adoptions are much, much cheaper than having your own kids, especially with fertility treatments–I’ve read that public agencies are low-cost and run less than $5,000, while private agencies are a little more expensive. There are options for you, and you WILL get to be a mom someday! Gigantic, gigantic hugs. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

*Hugs* I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope and pray that everything works out for you.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

Lots and lots of hugs and prayers coming your way from me. I have PCOS, so I am also faced with possible infertility, even though it has also always been my dream to have biological children. My heart goes out to you. Like others said, it’s not over until it’s over. Numbers are just a thing, there is always hope.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MissOtter31: I definitely can second this.  My siblings and I are all adopted.  My sister’s personality is just like my moms, and all og us have mixtures of my parents in us, even if its not genetic.

I know its tough for you right now, but really, adoption is such a beautiful thing.  My parents couldn’t have bio kids, but we really have a great family that was meant to fit toogether.  And to think, there could be a baby out there that you could give a chance to that no one else can.  Anyways, that’s just my 2 cents.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wish I knew you so I could run right over and give you a hug! Sometimes there is no reason.  Just keep positive. Hope is the bottom line of every thing!!! Give up that and you give up hope! My heart and prayers are with you. xoxo

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

So sorry to hear this news. 🙁 

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