(Closed) I feel cheated with my BP & MOH

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1533 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am confused…who said your BFF couldn’t come to the hotel? Did your sister go? You guys all just took off and left your BFF on the couch? What kind of fights did your sister start? If your wedding date is right, this happened over 3 months ago. I think it’s time to move on. Drunken drama is a common hazard of a large group drinking large quantities of alcohol. 

Post # 4
3783 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so confused. I agree that its time to let it go. Why hold onto anger and resentment over a drunken night? You are married now and that’s the important thing. It can’t be “re-done”. I day move on. Go out for an awesome night with your actual friends and replace the bad memory with a good one 🙂

Post # 6
2389 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Uh, let it go. Move on already.

Post # 7
2515 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

sometimes you just need to vent. hopefully typing it all out will make it easier for you to forget about what happened.

Post # 8
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Sometimes we get disappointed in things and people … everyone’s human…. but you hung onto this during your wedding ? 

It sounds like some druken college night out … get over it…. you don’t get a redo.

Post # 9
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Wow, this is drama and a half. Limit the alcohol next time?

Post # 10
1890 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Mrs-Mac:  Yeah, sounds like a case of drunken drama.  Definitely not worth still being upset about–if any sisters or friends try to bring it up in the future, you can just say something along the lines of, “Let’s not talk or think about that drama.”

And not to belittle it or anything, but your family and friends threw you what sounds like an expensive, planned-out party.  That’s pretty sweet, even if some people acted inappropriate.

Post # 11
6222 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

It’s been months. I think you really need to let this go. It’s not worth it. And while you might be saying “it’s my night,” no one had to do anything for you at all. So you should just be happy they put the effort into what looks like it was an expensive night.

Also, who cares if the DJ says happy birthday to someone at your bachelorette party? That is ridiculous IMO that you are still upset about that 

Post # 12
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Women + Alcohol + Any Expectation of the night OTHER than drama and chaos = Disappointment.

Out of all the things a bride has to enjoy, and there are a lot  of them, being sad over something like this is a total waste of time…take yourself out on the town any time you want…why do you have to be getting  married to cut loose and get crazy?

Every so often, I call some friends, we fab it up and hit the town because, well, we’re us and that merits some drinks and dancing any day.

Post # 13
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

i kinda think you’re overreacting. it happened months ago and it’s just a silly party, you really need to let it go and move on. Clearly the issues with your sister, etc. are more than just what happened at the party and these should be adequately addressed of course, but just not within the context of it ruin your bachelorette.  Just my 2cents…

Post # 14
37 posts

@Nona99:  “Women + Alcohol + Any Expectation of the night OTHER than drama and chaos = Disappointment.”

Uh, what? That’s a pretty sad view of women. I go out and drink with my girlfriends all of the time and we never have drama…because we’re adults…who respect each other.


If you constantly find yourself surrounded by drama, the problem is you.

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