Post # 47
- Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church
Sorry, but I think you’re overreacting. I can understand why you’re upset, but I honestly think you need to move on. She and her friends are allowed to talk about/ be excited about her pregnancy. Maybe you should have had another picture taken later on or something.
Post # 48
@Ari214: oh see i didn’t know that. how selfish of you to plan your wedding without major consideration of your one friend’s potential weight!
Post # 49
Yes, you’re overreacting. You already know this person is self-centered…why are you surprised/annoyed at what she did? Was she selfish? Yup. What I don’t get is why people complain about self-centered friends but they don’t seem to ever tell the friend. You get mad, annoyed and let what they do bother you and the friend never knows that you’re mad or annoyed. Who can live like that? This was a really minor incident but, clearly, it’s been building up. If it happens in the future and it bothers you and if she’s really a friend, pull her aside and say, hey, you’re being a little selfish here, this isn’t about you. She’s probably so used to trying to steal limelight, she doesn’t even know she’s doing it. You’ve got to start sticking up for yourself (and, frankly, for others too as I doubt you’re the only one she does it to) or move on from this friendship.
Post # 50
@Karmagirl: Yeah, I had another friend point this out and you guys are right. I think I have been a coward about saying anything to her b/c of the dynamics of our friendship. She introduced me to my fiance, and we all hang out in a big group. I fear that bringing this up will cause animosity and it will make things awkward for my fiance and the rest of the friends in our circle 🙁