(Closed) I feel hijacked by a pregnant friend

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

Sorry, but I think you’re overreacting. I can understand why you’re upset, but I honestly think you need to move on. She and her friends are allowed to talk about/ be excited about her pregnancy. Maybe you should have had another picture taken later on or something. 

Post # 48
880 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@Ari214:  oh see i didn’t know that. how selfish of you to plan your wedding without major consideration of your one friend’s potential weight!


Post # 49
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yes, you’re overreacting.  You already know this person is self-centered…why are you surprised/annoyed at what she did?  Was she selfish? Yup.  What I don’t get is why people complain about self-centered friends but they don’t seem to ever tell the friend.  You get mad, annoyed and let what they do bother you and the friend never knows that you’re mad or annoyed.  Who can live like that?  This was a really minor incident but, clearly, it’s been building up.  If it happens in the future and it bothers you and if she’s really a friend, pull her aside and say, hey, you’re being a little selfish here, this isn’t about you.  She’s probably so used to trying to steal limelight, she doesn’t even know she’s doing it.  You’ve got to start sticking up for yourself (and, frankly, for others too as I doubt you’re the only one she does it to) or move on from this friendship.

Post # 51
1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@MRSsrm85:  yesss!

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