(Closed) I feel like a crappy girlfriend…

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Make him breakfast in bed…

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@gocubbies:  I am definitely not a guru!  LMAO… but thank you!  πŸ™‚ 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Aw, I wouldn’t feel too terribly…you said there were times that he missed dinner b/c he was hanging out w/ friends. Just appoligize to him and make him that breakfast in bed.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

And let us know how it goes!!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Don’t beat yourself up too much!  Like you said, you never really go out, so your SO has been spoiled with always having you around.  This is just something new, you’ll get through it!  Give him some undivided attention, it will blow over.

Btw, sauteed celery?!  Omg, that sounds delish!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

yep, you messed up a little but that’s ok! it’s nothing major, he’s disappointed but you’ll make it up to him I’m sure.  it’s easy to get caught up in having fun and leaving at 9.30 is an EARLY night to me!!!  It’s forgiveable, don’t worry πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I did something like this the other day, went out with friends after work but instead of delaying going home I got too drunk to not be able to drive the 30 minutes home and ended up staying with a friend.  Needless to say, my Fiance was not impressed with me. 

So the next day, I apologized.  Not for going out with friends and staying much to long because I wasn’t sorry for that.  I went out and had a great time and there is nothing to apologize for there.  But I apologized for upsetting him and for not understanding at the time why he was upset.  

So try something like that.  Not to apologize for going out, but apologizing for hurting his feelings.  

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Things are going to happen! Dont feel to bad just dont make it an often occurance. 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

Well…now he knows how you felt when he did it to you. lol So now he won’t do it again. I agree with jalaamarie, don’t apologize for going out, but apologize for hurting his feelings. He’ll get over it, its not a BIG deal, just a little bump in the road. πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

These things happen…just don’t make a habit out of it!  I bet he won’t be doing this to you again either πŸ™‚

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