(Closed) I feel like a jerk. (MOH, Shower)

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2269 posts
Buzzing bee

@csteen85:  What a sweet, incredible MOH!

I’m sorry, I’d feel really bad too. Did you tell her that west coast people aren’t going to come to the shower?? And has she responded? Maybe it’s not too late! 

Post # 5
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t feel like a jerk. Your email was a good idea. Hopefully she will let you in on a few details. Are your other bridesmaids helping at all? Maybe you can get word to them as well and they can talk to your MOH? What a wonderful friend you have though!

Post # 6
15 posts

Awww, I hope my bride is as appreciative as you! I am the Maid/Matron of Honor and she invited over 50 people to her shower and the BM’s aren’t helping at all financially. When I accepted the MOH role I expected to throw a shower for 20-30 (I could have hosted at my house instead of renting a hall which cost an extra $400) not over 50 (and its over 50 that RSVPd). I also expected the BM’s to be helpful.

I think you are doing the right thing. All I want in this situation is appreciation and recognition from the bride and that’s exactly what you have done.

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