(Closed) I feel like I am a burden on my bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would tell the bridesmaid the necessary information and then leave it at that.  She either makes it happen or she doesnt.  Your not asking for anything unreasonable so you shouldnt feel bad at all.  Its your wedding day and you deserve to enjoy it.  I would become comfortable with the idea that she may not come through, but it will be ok with just 5 bridesmaids.  I have a bridesmaid similar to this and that is the conclusion I have came to.  If shes there great and if shes not oh well.  I can stress over things totally out of my control. 

Post # 4
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.SFI:  +1

You are not being unreasonable at all.  In fact you seem to have a good understanding of her situation and have set your expectations based on that.  She did say yes to being a bridesmaids, therefore there is a minimum she must do.  She should wear the shoes you’ve asked her to wear and keep her dress at least until after your entrance at the reception.  

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