Post # 1
Hi ladies, I’m not new to the boards. But I have just come back from a break. My wedding date is Feb 10th 2012, and I feel like I can not be excited. I feel like something might go bad before the big day, so there is no need to get excited. I have no idea why I feel this way, I have no reason to. My fiance is wonderful, and everything between us is wonderful. I feel bad because I have been telling him that I am scared out of my mind, but he listens and reassures me every time. I don’t know if It’s nerves or stress. I love him and want to marry him now without a doubt, just so freaked out right now about everything for some reason. Has anyone else gone through this ?
Post # 3
Your wedding is super close, congrats!
sometimes wedding planning can be a beast and an overwhelming one at that. I don’t know what to tell you about having that overbearing feeling of doom, but keep in mind that as long as at the end of the day you are married to the man you love everything turned out perfectly.
I often times get caught up with the ‘what if it rains’ ‘what if I get sick’ ‘what if our venue cancles or is flooded or whatever’ ‘what if half our family can’t show up becuase the planes don’t make it in’ yadda yadda yadda… This are all bad things that would be inconvenient on the wedding day, but all in all if you are married and you are in love than that is all that matters and everything else can wait.
Post # 4
You are probably just a pessimist! Try and look on the bright side of things. You have a fiance you love and who loves you. You are getting frickin’ MARRIED!
It’s understandable to be nervous. You are going to be up in front of a lot of people and a lot of stuff is going to go down on your wedding day. But you will be surrounded by family and friends who love and support you. You will probably forget about all your bad thoughts as soon as you see how lovely you look and how happy your fiance is. 🙂
Post # 5
Thank you all so much ! Yes wedding planning is a whole lot, especially when we decided to go through with it like 3 weeks ago !!! Everything has been going so fast, now that I’ve had a chance to breath It’s like OMG ! I’m geting married ! lol. But, I’m trying to calm down as much as possible. I think because of the short notice, and things falling into place so wonderfully. I feel like somehing bad is bound to happen. Maybe i am a pessimist lol
Post # 6
Mine is the day after yours!
I kinda know what you mean. Currently I’m excited, but I did go through a phase like what you’re going through. Almost like it’s so perfect, and your so happy…could this be real and actually happening? I’m a control freak and not having control of all the people involved and all aspects is really driving me crazy, and I’m worried something will not happen how I plan it to.
You just have to take a deep breath, and realize at the end of the day-you’ll be married to the love of your life- and if something DOES go wrong, o well!
Post # 7
Your getting married in my birthday! 😀
It might just be jitters. A couple got Married at my work the other day andwhen they played the Wedding march, I seriously panicked. Fi made fun of me so bad lol.
Congrats and breath! It will be great!
Post # 8
@ithinkpink90: Awww Congrats ! But yes thats exactly how I am at this point, I think I should just loosen up some.
@imalittlebirdie: Happy early Birthday ! Lol that is too funny, but I think I would have been the same way too.
You all are making me feel so much better !