(Closed) I Feel Like I Cant Be Excited

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1841 posts
Buzzing bee

Your wedding is super close, congrats!

sometimes wedding planning can be a beast and an overwhelming one at that. I don’t know what to tell you about having that overbearing feeling of doom, but keep in mind that as long as at the end of the day you are married to the man you love everything turned out perfectly.

I often times get caught up with the ‘what if it rains’ ‘what if I get sick’ ‘what if our venue cancles or is flooded or whatever’ ‘what if half our family can’t show up becuase the planes don’t make it in’ yadda yadda yadda… This are all bad things that would be inconvenient on the wedding day, but all in all if you are married and you are in love than that is all that matters and everything else can wait.

Post # 4
135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012


You are probably just a pessimist! Try and look on the bright side of things. You have a fiance you love and who loves you. You are getting frickin’ MARRIED!

It’s understandable to be nervous. You are going to be up in front of a lot of people and a lot of stuff is going to go down on your wedding day. But you will be surrounded by family and friends who love and support you. You will probably forget about all your bad thoughts as soon as you see how lovely you look and how happy your fiance is. 🙂

Good luck! 

Post # 6
59 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Mine is the day after yours!

I kinda know what you mean. Currently I’m excited, but I did go through a phase like what you’re going through. Almost like it’s so perfect, and your so happy…could this be real and actually happening? I’m a control freak and not having control of all the people involved and all aspects is really driving me crazy, and I’m worried something will not happen how I plan it to.

You just have to take a deep breath, and realize at the end of the day-you’ll be married to the love of your life- and if something DOES go wrong, o well!

Post # 7
2649 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Your getting married in my birthday! 😀

It might just be jitters. A couple got Married at my work the other day andwhen they played the   Wedding march, I seriously panicked. Fi made fun of me so bad lol.


Congrats and breath! It will be great!

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