(Closed) I feel like I need a script…

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
10354 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you should just have a really calm talk about what his personal timeline is and why, and then state what your thoughts are and why. Start off with something like “When we moved in together, we discussed marriage, and i’ve been thinking about our future a lot lately. Do you have a timeline in mind?”

Definitely don’t do it on the vacation. Also, just because he doesn’t like pressure doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be honest and open with him about the most important step in your relationship. It’s your life and your relationship, too. You get a say in it. The timeline isn’t only up to him.

Post # 4
18627 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree with crayfish.  Just talk about it calmly and let him know that you love him and that’s why you want to go to the next step with him.

Also, don’t expect it on your vacation, guys never seem to like to do it at the time we think it is “perfect”.

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