(Closed) I feel like I'm not friends with my bridesmaid anymore

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
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Karmagirl:  YES I wish I waited… I was really close to my Maid/Matron of Honor in the summer and since I got engaged (in September) she has been “busy”, but I know she has a 9-5 job she doesn’t take home, and other than that I have no idea what she could be so busy with but she is seeming to check out of the friendship.  I am NOT a bridezilla everyone has told me this.  So i’m at a loss :S  I would like her to not be in the wedding party at this point but I know that if i ask her to step down it will end the friendship right?  WHAT DO YOU DO then, just have a lukewarm friend up with you on your wedding day or completely ruin the friendship. *Sigh*

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katelyndawn89:  oh i know just how you feel! I’m in a really similar situation. but I don’t want to lose my friend, she’s my oldest friend. im hoping that actually, spending time getting together the mornings of our weddings (she gets married shortly after me and I am her bridesmaid too) reminds us how much fun we used to have together, and whatever is making her act so distant passes eventually.

Post # 18
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  • Wedding: August 2011

I had the opposite situation where I was asked to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man for a friend but she really was never interested in getting together. True she was wedding planning, but it was clear that she made time away from that for certain other people, plus there was a certain incident where she and her fiancé were trying to get together with my then SO who I had met through them but when he wasn’t able to my friend refused to get together with just me for the same day , she said that wasn’t good enough (um, thanks?). I ended up dropping out of her wedding after she called me screaming at me one day, and happened to mention that her fiancé no longer liked me at all, AND she accused me of being jealous and “wanting” her fiancé (ugh). 

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