(Closed) I feel like I’m really annoying my FI about the upcoming wedding lol

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh totally. My Fiance has been totally hands off. But he does put in his two cents here and there…always after I’ve made a decision haha. 

He cares, but he just wants me to be happy. If he had his way, we’d have a BBQ and beer. He just wants to be married πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

100% the same!!!  Fiance just gives me this look like “please, stop”. lolol. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I have nothing to add except ME TOOOO.

I feel like such a pain, but I can’t help myself!! I’m always asking him these silly questions about the wedding that he honestly doesn’t care about! Thankfully, my mom is totally into it, so I’ve been getting myself into the habit of calling her to chat about silly wedding things instead of overwhelming my poor Fiance.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

me too

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

that’s what i love about the bee….i can do that here and no one ever gives me the “please stop” look!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Mrs. Meowerson: same! Fiance is always saying ‘you ask me this aaaaalll the time.’ Hon, the wedding in general has many different little decisions to make, a Q about food is not the same as a Q about invites or guest list. Yeesh! I think jewelry stores should give men a wedding planning binder with a ring purchase, so they really appreciate all the work we do πŸ˜‰

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@indibee: if they did that, i think we’d stop getting rings lol

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Mrs. Meowerson: Bahaha, true. Ok, then maybe there should be a post-engagement pamphlet that comes in the mail to all new grooms-to-be (from the wedding fairy), explaining all the work that goes into weddings, and who this new wedding-planning woman is and approximate timelines on when their sweet Fiance will return to normal πŸ™‚ Lol. 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Me too!! It seems like its all I talk about!! Poor FI!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

FI’s really good with helping on decisions, but once the decision is made, he doesn’t really obsess over it like I do :/. He also just doesn’t care about some stuff, like centerpieces.

Thank God for weddingbee, huh? πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Having just asked my Fiance, he refered to it as the “withering look of total stupidity” – I doubt that your SO’s are quite so cruel, but I’m lucky if I just get the look. Often he’ll walk out of the room πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

yup, the latest comment is, “You know i dont really care about paper” – but it must all match!!!

he’s recently found this saying that gets more sarcastic the more i hear it – “I’d like nothing more”! love it!

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