(Closed) I feel like I’m the bad FI

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Eeeks…I would feel bad too.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oof, I’d feel a bit bad too. Maybe start to make it up to him by wearing only the Manolos to bed ;0)

Post # 6
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Busy bee

is there somewhere he wants to go? you could take him away for the weekend or something.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sometimes receiving gifts isn’t important to men/people. I know my fiance doesn’t care for them. He’d rather me do special things for him which include cooking his favourite meals, helping him out with a situation, talking to him about issues he might be having with family, giving him a back rub or just plain old extra affection. 

 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

Perhaps pick up some of his fav things/something he’s had his eye on (whatever that is).

But also shower him in love and appreciation. Build him up, seek to bless him, etc. That will make him feel great and will do equally great things for your relationship. So, since you know him better than us, what would bless him? Brainstorm and then get to work! Perhaps little notes, a letter, card, backrub, favorite meal out, fav. movie, compliments, a gift, affection, or all of these things and more.

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