(Closed) I feel like i’ve been betrayed :( am i over reacting??

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Im really confused why he would post your wedding pics on HER page? i would confront both friend and photog about it tho!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m confused, what did you best friend do? The picture was posted on her page so it’s not like she did anything wrong. 

From what I can gather, it sounds like your photographer is unprofessional but puting your picture on someone else’s facebook page. I would say something to them but I’m not sure if that’s something they can do since they have rights to the picture. It just sounds innapropriate. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I can understand feeling let down, that is so bizarre that she would do that! Call your friend up and ask her what the deal was… Maybe she’s trying to get your pics faster for you?

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would ask your Boyfriend or Best Friend about it. What did the photod mean by “a deal’s a deal”? Maybe she was trying to get the photo for you?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t understand why she said “a deals a deal”???

Your contract probably states that you’ve given consent for her to use your photos, but I would call your photographer and let her know that you’re upset about it!  Let her know that in the future you’d like to be the first one to see photos before she posts them elsewhere – I think thats a reasonable request.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

I wouldn’t go so far that you were “betrayed,” but that’s really unprofessional that your photographer is sharing pictures with other people when you don’t have them yet. What part of “the couple gets them first” doesn’t he/she understand?

E-mail or call the photographer- “Hey, I was really surprised to see that you posted pictures on Jody’s FB page when I haven’t gotten them yet- does this mean they’re ready?”  You had a “deal” with the photographer, too- one he or she was PAID for.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am also confused. It seems weird, but I’d try not to get too pissed about it. I don’t think any harm was meant. And maybe this means you can get more pictures now – YEAH!

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I would love to know what type of deal your best friend made with your photographer, and why.  As a prior poster suggested, the photographer owns the rights to the images and is able to post them wherever he or she sees fit.  However, that’s just odd. Your Boyfriend or Best Friend obviously did something to make this deal, but what, and why?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Ask you best friend about it, that is SO weird O_o

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t get this story at all?

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Is it possible the photographer gave the friend the photo as a gift to you?

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would stop assuming the worst and ask your friend (non confrontationally) what deal she made with the photog. Is this odd? Yes. Is this worth ruining a friendship? No.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t understand the a deal is a deal thing.. wtf?

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