(Closed) I feel Like No One Is Coming To My Wedding…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, you’ll be surrounded with 67 people who love you! 

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MsNarwhal:  Every wedding is different.  Plus, you still have two weeks.  I’m sure you’ll get some more yes’s soon!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We invited 232 and I’m hoping we have declines!!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You have two weeks! And even then, bet you have to chase some down. You’ll be fine, from what I hear you are right about on target with the number of responses. Some people just take longer…

I know before I started planning my wedding, sometimes I was one of those people who took their time responding. Now I would never, but stil…

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

if your family is anything like mine, you will be receiving the rest of your rsvps in 2 weeks or 2 weeks and 2 days! 

dont worry ๐Ÿ™‚ a lot of people these days are last minute.. if you dont get them by your rsvp date, be sure to call them to check in and remind them that you need them asap ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

This always worries me…but it sounds like it all works out in the end ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We invited 160 and about 100 came (I think our final RSVP count was 106 but then 4 or 5 who RSVPd cancelled last minute.) So yeah, that’s close to 40% decline but of that 40% decline most of them were from out of state so I think when you’re inviting a lot of people who don’t live within driving distance of the wedding you end up with much higher declines than 20%. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

First off, no, you absolutely won’t look like a big loser. Secondly, I am sure the remainder will not all say no. Actually, I’m kind of amazed you’ve got that many RSVPs back that long before the deadline!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

i want to say a third of people tend to send RSVP’s back as soon as they receive the invitaiton, and another third of invitees tend to send them at the verrrry last minute (with the remaining third falling somewhere in the middle.)… I have to admit, SO and I alway send these things back last minute. lol.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I only had a total of 56 guests (including the bridal party) and we invited about 110 ( I expected less actually to attend)….did I look like a big loser? Hell no. I looked like a happy married woman at the end of the day. Plus it was great having such a small wedding…I got to spend time with EVERYONE!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Don’t form a B list!  In my experience, you’re still not going to be able to socialize with all the people you want to, even with “only” 67 guests.  We had just under 40 (and trust me, I had the same freak-out) and I still wish I had been able to spend more time with everyone who was there!

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

69 people came to my wedding and I can assure you that I did not look like a loser.

A wedding is awesome no matter how many people come. Most people leave these things till the last minute!

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