Post # 1
Regular Bee going anon here to ask this awkward question!
Okay, so I’m just going to jump right in here because I dont know how to start, haha.
So, I know that when guys reach orgasm they essentially shoot out the bodily fluids. And I know that there are girls that are “squirters” which I assume means that once they climax it literally squirts out like a water gun? (haha).
But when I climax, NOTHING happens with bodily fluids. Like, I will be wet all during foreplay (and use lube during sex if needed). I totally 100% FEEL the orgasm, but NOTHING comes out, at all. It doesn’t drip, leak, squirt, NOTHING. If there wasnt lube it’d probably be dry when I orgasm.
Is this normal? Do you ladies get more wet/leak/squirt/release fluids when you orgasm?
Is there something wrong with me?
Fiance has never said anything about it, but I am SO afraid that he think that I fake orgasm since I never ‘explode’ when I climax.
Just for referance, I am 24 and have been having sex since I was 18, and have been having sex on a regular basis for the past 3 years.
Post # 3
So normal! Don’t worry!
I actual get more dry as sex goes on, even when I’m getting more turned on and close to cumming. Nothing comes out of me at all, and it’s totally normal 🙂
Post # 4
Yeah, VERY few women are squirters.
And from what I understand, squirting in porn is generally fake (I know! Part of porn FAKE? WHAT!)
Post # 5
You are perfectly normal! I happen to believe that woman who “squirt” are probably just peeing. I wouldn’t want to squirt anyway, sex is messy enough!
Post # 6
@Cory_loves_this_girl: Female ejaculation is a real thing…it’s not just pee.
@OrangeAnon: However, it’s not super common! You are totally normal. 🙂
Post # 7
Yep, perfectally normal. I have squirted once in my life, it was odd. Women who sqirt regularly are very rare.
Post # 8
- Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo
There’s a lot of evidence to suggest that “squirting” is mostly just pee…
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation#Research though after re-reading the wiki I’m not sure.
I do think that most women don’t squirt, it’s gunna be pretty messy if it happens and it would serve no function (unlike male ejaculation) so your chances of concieving are no less 🙂
Post # 9
@OrangeAnon: You are totally normal. I don’t believe most women ejaculate. Women have something called the Skene’s gland which is sort of like the femal version of the male prostate. It has been said that this gland can produce an ejaculate- that is definitely not urine. Some women do not have this gland- perhaps an evolutionary thing? And it isn’t active in all women.
Post # 10
Not a lot of women squirt. I went to school with a girl in college who did, although, I just took her word for it. No way in hell did I want to see it in action.
But either way, if you’re not launching fluid out of your body, that doesn’t mean you’re not orgasming wrong, and if your husband is under the assumption that women orgasm that way, he needs to be educated.
Be secure in your orgasms and don’t give them another thought.
Post # 11
@OrangeAnon: Just echoing what others have said… totally normal. Very few women ever squirt and even those who do don’t always.
Post # 12
@OrangeAnon: You’re totally normal…I only knew one woman that actually “squirted”….it was my freshman year roommate..the first time she and her Boyfriend or Best Friend went at it and she had an orgasm… SPLOOSH…all over her dorm room bed. He freaked, ran out of there, she freaked started crying, I was hanging out in a neighbor’s room and heard the commotion….it was Amityville in there…red candles, flower petals and soaked sheets with this sweet girl crying her eyes out in the middle of it all just because she’d finally gotten to O-Town.
Interesting post script to this story, rumor spread about my roomie…and she had many a gentleman caller looking to get her to gush….our solution to the problem…rubber sheets and a vigorous screening process.
Post # 13
@OrangeAnon: lol you’re totally normal. Squirting is something that most people don’t do.
Post # 14
@Nona99: LOL SERIOUSLY!? You always have an interesting story to tell.. about pretty much any topic hahaha.
Post # 15
@canarydiamond: …I’ll admit its one of my weirder experiences..but certainly not the weirdest…she was a really nice girl and I like her a lot….the way I figure it…at least ONE of the people in that room knew what had happened, so it was a good thing
Post # 16
I can but its gspot induced, regular clitoral O is of the non squirting variety. And its definately NOT pee! lol