(Closed) I feel so bad for my FI!

posted 7 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

My husband is going through the same thing right now..sort of.  He’s in over his head with work. Working from 7:30-7;30 every night and he’s a builder so he’s beat by the end of the day.  Then he comes home and there’s phone calls to be made to clients, etc.. it never ends for him.

I’m waiting for him to get out of the shower so we can talk about him delegating work to me and letting me handle a lot more than I have been for him (I only work part time and I’ve been trying to be his secretary too).  He’s a perfectionist/control freak about his work which is good and obviously bad too in some aspects.  It’s good because he’s really earned a great reputation because of that and that’s why he has so much work right now during times where most contractors are scrounging for work, but it’s bad because he takes on too many tasks and it creates stress.   He really has a hard time delegating, he’s driving himself crazy and I’m trying to help him but he’s stubborn.

Post # 4
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@SweetRose2011: awww Im sorry to hear that dear, I hope he feels muchly better however. I get really nervous actually driving to new places (ask my SO, I always write out directions and then follow them religiously). Im sure he arrived safe and sound though and that he feels better about it now?

Post # 6
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891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

make him a hotty totty.  hot water, lemon juice, a shot of whiskey and some honey.  will calm his nerves and he’ll sleep like a log.

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