(Closed) I feel so disorganized

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1217 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@littlegreenleaf:  I think having a Skype meeting with them will help you relax – they’re your friends after all and that’s what  friends are for – making you feel better when you are stressed out. 

If they are very adamant about not wearing white shoes, then you can ask them to wear a different color shoes. It sounds like they are pretty willing to purchase whatever you ask them to wear, so if you choose another color it shouldn’t be a big deal. I totally understand about not caring, though – I told my BMs to wear nude shoes and I really don’t care at all what they look like, that’s up to them. But my BMs freaked out a little too, so I literally Googled “bridesmaids nude shoes” and emailed them a picture of some generally good-looking, coordinated nude heels on a group of BMs.

Does the store with the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses have free returns? If it’s easiest, just tell the girls to buy them online and return them if they don’t fit. We’ve still got 3 months until November 🙂  But if any of your BMs are on a really tight budget, then you can talk to them individually and explain the situation and let them know that they can buy the dress in-store.

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