Post # 1
Ok so this morning upon waking up, I noticed that a “friend” on facebook has deleted me, or blocked me. I only noticed this because she commented on a post I had up, and her image was gone, and her name in bold black lettering.
So this “friend’ was a lady I have had conversations with on here, weddingbee. We had some really nice, kind of personal conversations. So I was a little upset that she had gone through great lengths to ignore me.
So when I signed onto weddingbee instead of immedietly contacting her ( I’m not very confrontational) I went to see if maybe I had offended her in one of her last posts. I noticed that she wanted some help and advice, on her last post, and I wasn;t such a “friend” to respond. But I honestly hadn’t seen the post until that moment. So I clicked on it, and a mod has said she was another user months ago. Then I searched why she was blocked, and Mr. Bee said in another post she was racist in PM’s, and had numerous fake accounts .
So I shared personal information, and pictures of my family with this lady, who is racist (I am of an ethinic background, and consequently so is my son), and possibly crazy. She told me she was new here!! I will never again, be so trust worthy on here. I can’t believe I ever was!!!!!
And maybe I could have forgiven her, if she would have just explained to me on FB what was up. Maybe she is just embarrassed, I’ll never know.
Anyways, I feel a little violated. Not sure why, though. It’s not like she owed me anything.
Post # 3
Eeep sorry! Hopefully it was all harmless towards you though. I don’t blame you for feeling uneasy about the whole thing.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry! That is aweful! ((hugs))
Post # 5
I know exactly who you are talking about because I saw the post where she was asking for people to PM her and then saw that a mod had closed it. It’s really creepy to see the lengths that these losers will go to infiltrate this site.
That was a terrible thing to do to you and she probably did the same to others. It’s a total violation of trust and so SICK. Hopefully this will be the end of it but you are right-be super cautious from here on out. But don’t beat yourself up-she took advantage of you. Psycho!
Post # 6
Eek ! just know that she is OBVIOUSLY the one with the problem and you did nothing wrong… what a psycho !
Post # 7
that is scary.. and sad… i guess just because this is wedding bee, doesn’t mean you can trust everyone. I think we feel since we are all brides/fiance/something.. we forget about it still being online.
we just need to be careful, this world makes me sad sometimes.
Post # 8
Wow, that’s weird. Unfortunately, that’s the reason I have not revealed my true identity and refuse to add anyone from this site on Facebook. It sucks because I would love to interact with some of you outside of here, but it’s just a risk I’m not willing to take. :/
Post # 9
wow and from your description of her history on weddingbee, i think i know her original username on here.
Post # 10
Yuck. I’d feel violated too. So sorry this happened to you. 🙁
Post # 11
WOAH. I just got MEGA creeped out.
ETA: This makes me really mad. I figured out who the user was and I have to say, I saw them on a lot of posts and usually enjoyed what they had to say. WTF.
Post # 12
@soyjoy222: I was just going to say the same thing. I enjoyed some of their comments. I don’t get people.
Post # 13
@dynamic_duo: Being a long time lurker on here before I signed up I definitely remember the poster. MightySapphire outed who it was in her last thread before it was closed.
Post # 14
thats so awful – what is wrong with people?!
Post # 15
Gosh, now I’m curious. I iwsh I knew who we were talking about here.
Post # 16
Is this person still on here, but on another name?