(Closed) I feel totally useless and betrayed

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sorry to hear you are going through a tough time with TTC. Have you visited with an OBGYN or your doctor to figure out a path to get you from where you are to where you want to be? Try not to get too stressed about it all just take it one step at a time.

Post # 5
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502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I understand the disappointment. It’s good that you are working with an OBGYN. If you don’t mind me asking, how long have you been TTC?

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Hey, I’m sorry you feel so discouraged..totally understandable, but it will happen for you, give it a few more months. Some friends of mine went through the chemical situation a few months into TTC, and ofcourse they were devestated, but they got full pregnant the very next month. So, stay strong! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

*hugs*  Oh boy do I ever know how you feel.  I’ve been at this darn ttc journey for nearly 3 years now and have had 6 (chemical) miscarriages.  It’s so disappointing and hard to deal with at best.   Sadly enough the truth is that miscarriage is extremely common – it’s just not talked about that often.  Give yourself time and allow yourself to grieve for however long you need to.  

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@StevieJo:  I’m so sorry about this. I have had never had a chemical pregnancy but a MCed and that was very hard. πŸ™ Have you been karotyped before? Do you know what to expect? If you still have menstrual cycles, maybe it would still be possible?

No matter what hopefully you can have the family you want! I’m not going to jump to all the hard stuff but either way I think it will happen for you πŸ™‚ Your young you said your not textbook turners so maybe it will all be good! Sending happy thoughts your way *hugs*.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Just sending lots of love and prayers.  *hugs*

Post # 14
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701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

Hugs xxxx

So sorry that this has happened to you. I am glad your not giving up! My mum was adopted, and honestly i wouldnt want it any other way πŸ™‚ my grandparents are amazing people, and i deffinetly agree that it is not dna that makes a family, but love πŸ™‚ So please dont give up!

πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

Stay strong, one way or another you will become a mummy if that’s what you want

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