Post # 1
Hello Hive!!!! It’s been a while and I needed the break…I’m back to the bee and I see lots of engagements, CONGRATS TO ALL THE NEWLY ENGAGED BEES!!! Anyways, I finally officially left him. We brought the New Year in with a bang and not a good one…the events got me thinking and I realize the relationship had finally run its course. I had quietly made the decision to move on without telling him after Labor Day 2013…then changed my mind after a “Come to Jesus” talk with him…I truly believed that things would be different and he lead me to believe that a holiday proposal was coming…coupled with the fact that my birthday teeters on the edge of engagement season…he literally had me believing it would happen at any moment. Fast forward to today, we are more that 3/4 of the way through another long hard engagement season and nothing has happened and nothing is on the horizon. I feel like my life is passing me by and progression is simply not occurring. It’s even harder because I’m in the age group where people are marrying and popping out babies left and right! I felt as though it was time for me to go, like I was doing nothing more than building myself up for something that was never going to happen with him. If I’m being completely honest, I don’t feel like I have anymore time to give him. I want a husband and another baby (or two), and I’m not 100% sure he’s not sure if he wants marriage (with me) anymore and hasn’t flat out said it but I’m rather certain that he’s happy with only having our son. Right now, my heart is in a million pieces and I’m looking to all the dates and events that’ll pass without him; however, I needed this for me. I needed more than anything to let go as we simply aren’t on the same page. Good luck to all the other waiting bees out there and Happy New Year Ladies!
Post # 3
Good luck to you!I know that there are happy times in your future so take care so you will be ready to enjoy them!
Post # 4
It sounds like you made the right decision. It’s always nice to see ladies acting in their own best interest.
Good luck to you and your son.
Post # 5
@beautifulgirl17: i’m so sorry, you will find love again and he will give you what you are looking for in life!
Post # 6
@beautifulgirl17: I am so sorry to hear about your break up, but good for you for knowing what you want and staying true to your self and following through. Sending you big hugs, all the very best.
Post # 7
Good for you for being so strong. I know it’s hard now but time will heal all wounds. Best of luck!
Post # 8
I’m glad you took a break and you had the courage to walk away from the relationship. There’s no reason to let that resentment continue building up. It sounds like you made the right decision. Thanks for updating us and I wish the best for you this year!
Post # 9
It sounds like you are making the best decision for you and your son. It took a lot of courage. Good for you!
Post # 10
@beautifulgirl17: What’s he going to say when you take his son from the household?
Post # 11
You have to do what is best for you and your child! I have a wonderful son, and I had to leave an unhappy relationship right after his birth. It was the best for he and I. I am in a happy and healthy relationship now, and I wish you the same in the future. I wish you and your youngin’ the absolute best!
Post # 12
@beautifulgirl17: Aww, that’s such a hard thing to do, but you know it was for the best. Someday (hopefully very soon) you will aquire a new found sense of freedom and start your new life. I’m so proud of you for having the strength to do it. I’ve been right where you are and am much happier now for leaving the loser. Good luck!
Post # 13
Congratulations! Sounds like making a decision about your life and where you are going has lifted some weight off your shoulders. I wish you the best!
Post # 14
It does sound like you made the best decision for you and your son. Best of luck to you on finding new love <3
Post # 15
@beautifulgirl17: Good luck. I know this was a really hard decision to come to, but it seems like it’s the right one for you. You deserve to be with someone who wants the same things out of life as you, and I really hope you find him soon!
Post # 16
Best wishes. I’m sure things are tough, but try to surround yourself with people and things that you love. Take up some old or new hobbies even. Do what makes you happy! Things will get better and you will find love.