(Closed) I found texts from my SO to my BFF…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
180 posts
Blushing bee

jillbean1217:  congrats! my fi asked my sister for help and that was a nice touch so I know how you must have felt when you read it. 🙂

Post # 4
2709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Yay!!! So exciting! The anticipation is intense hahha. I was in a similar situation.

My FI didn’t get any help, but he searched for a long time and tried really hard. Even took his full box extended cab truck with our dog into DT Toronto into the diamond district to find the perfect diamond for the ring he had made for me. 🙂

Post # 5
2128 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

That’s so exciting! I hope it happens for you soon!

Post # 6
4433 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t get your hopes up yet.  If he has to live paycheck to paycheck then I would guide him into a savings plan first, even if you want a really inexpensive ring it’ll be good to have a nice start to your engagement/marriage knowing he is financially stable. 

Post # 7
4106 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

This was so much more pleasant a post than I expected when I read your title!

Sounds very promising! Woo hoo!

Post # 9
4433 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

jillbean1217:  ok well the way you worded it would seem as though you haven’t saved enough. You said rent was due and he had no money in his paycheck. So from an outsider it would seem as though he needed more time. 

In most cases you don’t need the full amount right away anyway. 

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