(Closed) I found the prefect weding cake design but FI said NO!

posted 6 years ago in Food
Post # 3
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’m with your Fiance… too bad he didn’t like it – it would make a great groom’s cake!

Post # 4
8576 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

As pp said, grooms cake!

Post # 5
3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You could also order a small one for your bachelorette!  It’ll be in lots of pictures that way!

Post # 6
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

totally with your Fiance on that.  LOL

Post # 7
8444 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@trueblue14:  I wanted to do something like this (I wanted us slaying a boss), but my Fiance said no too.  I guess our guys are just more traditional.

Post # 8
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - parent\'s backyard

awwww, what a spoil sport. It’s a great cake!

Post # 9
2640 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

A lot depends on the tone of your wedding.

Formal? Not so much.

Casual? Totally!


The thing in the back of my mind is “what would grandma think?” It doesn’t have to drive your entire decision, obviously, but something to consider.

Post # 10
2375 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

It would be an awesome bachelorette cake!

And I’m totally with @gingerkitten:  on this.  If you’re inviting anyone of your parent’s generation or older, be at least somewhat considerate.  Fun has its place, but you’re going to be seeing grandma for a lot of family get togethers and events in the future.

Post # 11
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

If not Groom’s cake, maybe 1st anniversary?

Post # 12
1856 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Goodness, I would say no too.

Post # 13
9120 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m totally with you — that cake is great! I’d totally beg and please to convince him to agree. 😉

ETA: Weddings are stuffy. I don’t think every wedding, formal or not has to adhere to the “norms” that everything has to be pretty and frilly and delicate and don’t do that, grandma might be offended! This isn’t about you, or grandma, or someone who won’t get it. This is about the bride and groom and if it fits their personality, that’s all that really matters. Trust me, Grandma will get over it.

Post # 14
301 posts
Helper bee

Maybe he’d like it if it were a little less gorey. Zombie getting his head cut off by a lawnmower IS a little extreme 🙂 

Post # 15
34 posts
  • Wedding: March 2011

That cake would of been awsome! lol

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