(Closed) I get SO emotional at the thought of my Wedding Day

posted 6 years ago in Traditions
Post # 3
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, you’re not alone! I was like this too!  Just wait until it gets closer and the stress sets in – you won’t have time to feel emotional about it! At least I don’t.  I mostly just feel annoyed now haha. 

Pinching the skin between your thumb and index finger helps prevent you from crying! Not sure if you’ll be able to do this without people noticing though haha!

I’ve also heard that super emotional people beforehand were shocked that they didn’t end up crying at all on the big day.  So, ya never know what will happen!

Post # 4
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I felt like this while wedding planning…and then the day of I was SO NERVOUS about everything going right that it kind of sucked all of the tears out of me. I was pretty much on pins and needles driving to the venue, getting dressed, waiting to walk down the aisle, even during the ceremony! And then pretty much the second the ceremony was over and we were out of that space, all of the nervousness rushed out of me and I was just so happy!

Post # 5
78 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I feel exactly the same way!  My fear is that I’ll ugly cry throughout the whole ceremony and that’s the face that’ll be immortalised in pictures.. yikes!  To help with this, we decided to do a first look before the ceremony to calm the nerves and spend some alone time together.  We’re very private people to begin with so the thought of getting overly emotional in front of all our guests is daunting.

Post # 8
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I had the same problem before my wedding! I would get teary about it at the drop of a hat! I was just SO EXCITED! The morning of, I woke up, realized I got to marry him, and cried of excitement. OY. 

The weird thing is, when we were at the alter, I barely cried at all! I was SO worried about bad pictures, I think I had got most of the cry out and was training myself not to do it! 😛

Post # 9
1193 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MxH13:  haha I am the same! Everyime I hear my wedding song I tear up. Trying to desensitize myself but that’s not working out…

Post # 10
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MxH13:  no matter how organized you are, I feel like it’s impossible to not be stressed in the last week or two! Even though I’m pretty organized and prepared (and not even doing the planning – my mom is!) I’m still feeling very overwhelmed and stressed with pulling everything together. 

Post # 11
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 1999

I get SO emotional. It is RIDIC. My friend from the US (we keep having discussions about crying lol) made me this hanky that she had embroidered herself and it says ‘no ugly crying’ and I just love it coz I wont be able to go to her wedding and she wont be able to make it to mine so I just bawled when I got it. I ugly cried at the no ugly crying wedding hanky. Yup. I can’t even think about the ceremony, my dad and mum walking me down the aisle, seeing my boyfriend, havign my 3 bridesmaids and my 3 bridesmen and my little nephew there… ahh. It is distressing! lol!! I hope I dont go beserk for the day (Im hoping I will get it all out the way by then – especially at my best friends wedding in April to whom I am a bridesmaid).

Post # 12
29 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

Oh yes!!!  I’m in the same boat.  However, I think I’m going to be more emotional once my father sees me in my dress for the first time.  My mother told me that he cries when he thinks about my wedding or sees a wedding on tv.   Hmmm wonder where I get it from.  LOL

Post # 13
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

I totally got mushy today on the train thinking about our vows. 

other times I get really smiley and touch my Fiance’s arm, sometimes I shake his elbow and say “we’re getting married!” randomly

Post # 14
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I got blubbery when I walked out in THE dress and pictured myself standing across from my Fiance. I guess my plan is to try to cry it out at the rehearsal so it’s over and released by the day of.

Post # 15
503 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’m in the same boat… Anything wedding related makes me cry, anything really romantic makes me cry, I’ve warned FH that I may be one big snotty tearful mess all day when we get married!

Post # 16
44 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

It is a very emotional day! I cried the whole time I wrote my vows or read them, every time I listened to our ceremony song I choose to walk down the aisle or even just envisioned saying “I do!” I was such a ball of nerves that day however that I was so shocked when I got through my vows and the entire ceremony without crying! 🙂

Then after the ceremony when we walk back down the aisle as now MR. & Mrs. and into an area where the wedding party gathers, I turn around as I enter the room and see my 18 year old daughter (who was my MOH) balling her eyes out and choking out how beautiful it was and I lost it! LOL Hell, I am tearing up now recalling it and I have been married for 4 months! Haha!

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