(Closed) I Give up, They can wear what they Want

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I read your previous post don’t give in! is it only your sister fighting you on the dress??

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If one sister is being “good” then just let her stand by you with your 3 other groomsmen on the other side…its okay! Just dont let them win! This is terrible! While I dont think a bride should be so demanding (which I dont think you’re being) I also dont think bridesmaids should be so demanding either! When you agree to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man you agree to wear the ugliest dress that the bride can put you in (joking of course, but really its true!) so they just need to SUCK IT UP!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You should NOT give in!!! This is YOUR day and YOUR vision…not hers!!!! If she wants to be that way, then maybe she doesn’t deserve to be in YOUR wedding

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Hippos:  This is true.  It’s part of the job to allow hideous dresses. 

 

I agree.  IT’s YOUR WEDDING. If anything…you should cancel your BM’s.  How incredibly rude.  I am so sorry for the stress this is causing you.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

Wait, you changed your decor to suit someone who wasn’t your groom?

I know you said you don’t have it in you to fight anymore, so don’t. I haven’t read your previous situation, but have you considered that these people don’t have to be in your wedding? It is YOUR day and when they want to make wedding decisions they can go get married!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

@MrsTimmy:  Actually your family is 100% wrong. You can do whatever you want to. So yes, you can do ___.

I recommend taking back control of your wedding. It will seriously help with the tears of frustration.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Have you shown her the cranberry dress? I think they are super pretty. Your sister is being so unfair.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

These are the types of girls who shouldn’t have an option, because you are giving them an inch and they are taking a mile.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Kick them all out of the wedding!  Well, except the sister who is being great.

Seriously, someone needs to give their heads a shake.  It isn’t their wedding!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsTimmy:  I agree with a PP. PLEASE kick them all out the wedding except the one good sister. Also, do what I had to do: keep all family out of your planning. Avoid their calls, answer “mmhmm”/”We already have an idea for that”/”We have already decided” and end the convo.

In your case, PLEASE become a bitch bridezilla and regain control!

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