(Closed) I give up! Two days and still nothing

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
4824 posts
Honey bee

ITs your sister so I would allow her to decide who can stay there.  And FI’s family is in charge of their own accomodations. I dont think its expected nor fair to your sister to house ppl that she is not even related to.

As a destination wedding people expect to have to pay for accomodations. It is not your job to find and workout a “fair” plan.  You can help with arrangements, but its their own responsibility.

As for you and your husband, I would suggest getting your own room at a hotel. There is enough stress surrounding the wedding and sharing a house with a bunch of people will only add to it.

Post # 4
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@lefeymw:  I absolutely agree with this.  Let your sister figure out who she would like to stay with her, and everyone else is on their own.  I would also agree that you and Fiance should plan to stay elsewhere.

Post # 5
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@lefeymw: Agreed with all of that.

We are planning on a destination wedding also, and we thought about renting a house. Then we realized we didn’t think everyone would get along (even for two days max) in the same house. If you don’t like the idea listed above, what about trying to find a hotel that does group rates? People can double up on rooms and split it between themselves.

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