(Closed) I Got Called a Bridezilla this weekend

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Omg…don’t even get me started. I am right there with you, fellow “bridezilla”….NOT!

If I hear one more time that I am planning too early, my head will explode. Either that or some fists are going to start flying!

People don’t realize how much planning and time it takes- and YES, why wait until the last 2 months when it would all become incredibly stressful???

You are doing the right thing, researching, planning, thinking, analyzing…!! Being organized is a virtue!!

 

 

Post # 5
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

lol I really think that most people dont realize how much planning goes into a wedding. So what might seem “bridezilla like” might actually just be efficient planning.

Post # 6
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@ohheavenlyday: I hear ya! I mean, I just feel like- if we aren’t getting bossy or bitchy or mean…then there is no reason for anyone to get bothered or make any passive aggressive comments.

It is true, most people really don’t understand how much planning it takes- and also how planning can end up saving you a lot of money!

Post # 7
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390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@ohheavenlyday: I absolutely hate being called a bridezilla. And it has been said by a few people already. Funny thing is I don’t think my “demands” are that Bridezilla-ish.

Demands by “Bridezilla Polar Bear”

  • Bridesmaids wear blue….because that is one of my colors
  • No shellfish at the wedding….because I am ridiculously allergic

You get the idea. I hate the show Bridezillas because now the world thinks it’s totally appropriate to call women that just because we have a specific vision for our wedding. Visions such as no stress-induced rushing to get centerpieces done (because god forbid you have a nice pleasant time with your centerpieces) or not dying so people can have some bloody shrimp.

*climbs off soapbox*

Good luck with your planning and stay organized!!!

<3/Ms. Polar Bear

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