- 10 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
OMG sexisammy4u, I just read your update and I am so sorry to hear how it’s turned out. No matter what anyone else says, his actions definitely make you feel horrible and IT’S NOT RIGHT for him to make you feel that way! Most women, myself included feel the same exact way as yourself! It’s disprespectful, insensitive, and ignoring your concerns is just outright selfish!
I think you should take this time to reassess the relationship. Is cybering an obssession for him? Can he stop anytime? Is he willing to stop? It might seem like cybering is more important to him than your relationship, but guys can be slow sometimes … you have to SPELL IT OUT for him. If you aren’t OK with it, tell him and let him choose. If it is a problem, then I don’t see it any different from other obsessions. You will need outside help …
But even after all that, you have to ask yourself if you’re willing to work it out. This is a very personal question that only you can decide. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but the bright side is you found out NOW instead of later.
Surround yourself with friends and family right now! Be strong! *HUGS*