(Closed) I guess it's time to remove me…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

*Hugs* It’s never easy, but good for you standing up for yourself. Marriage should never be this hard and you can find a guy out there who loves you and is THRILLED at the idea of making you his wife.

Good luck!

Post # 18
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1430 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’m sorry, but I agree with trueblue14. If marriage is what you want, you should get it so you can be happy in your life. It sucks that he doesn’t want the same things as yourself, but I know someone else out there does. He’s just waiting to meet you.

Post # 19
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1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m sorry {hugs} but it sounds like you’re doing what is best for you both.

Post # 20
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509 posts
Busy bee

From now on I want you to rephrase what you’re telling yourself, please?  It’s not that you’re not enough, it”s that he isn’t good enough for you.

Big hugs, and stay true to yourself because you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect exactly the way you are.

Post # 21
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79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you….stay strong!! I ended a five year relationship once I realized we didn’t want the same things in life. I was ready to settle down and he was taking way too long deciding that I was the one. You have to know your worth!!! As soon as I left him I found my soulmate! It was the best thing that could ever happen to me. Even if I thought it was the end of the world! I hope it all works out for the best!! 🙂

Post # 22
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2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

🙁

Post # 24
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1058 posts
Bumble bee

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@DrMrsCol:  =( I hope things improve for you soon – either he has his aha moment and proposes, or you get the strength to leave. I can’t imagine what it must be like to be in your shoes – I’ve just been dating my SO for a little over two years and thinking of leaving him breaks my heart. On a side note, I have a friend who just ended a 12 year long relationship after being married for 2 of those years, and is doing absolutely fine. I think when you know it is over you feel okay about moving on. Good luck!

Post # 25
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69 posts
Worker bee

*hugs*  It takes a whole lot of strength to do what you’re doing.  If only you had a window into the future to see the wonderful things that I’m sure are waiting for you.  

Post # 27
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

Please don’t waste any more time on this man. You will not get what you want from him especially in the area concerning kids. He has been there, done that. It is OK to love him but a part of loving someone is to know when they aren’t right for you and you must move on. Don’t waste your years, you won’t get them back. 

Post # 28
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21 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Big hugs!! I’m so sorry!!!!

Post # 30
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242 posts
Helper bee

I agree with armychica06. I feel for you. I know you love this man and it’s hard for you to let him go but please consider leaving. He has been stringing you along for way too long. He may be a good man and you may love him but you guys are looking for different things. His actions have shown that. I don’t want you to regret staying so long with him while you still can have children. I stayed in a relationship that was wrong for me for 4.5 years from age 29 to 34 and I cant get those years back. I met my current Fiance when I was 35 but I felt that everything needed to be rushed and pressured him because of my biological clock. I thank God that things did work out and he did ask me to marry him 2 weeks ago but I still sometimes look back on those younger years that I can’t gain back from an unhealthy relationship I stayed in. Please take care of you. Big fat hugs and sending courage your way

Post # 31
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

**hugs**

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