(Closed) I guess my BM dropped out. Just needing to vent

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
59 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

let it go!  you are owrth so much more than something so petty.  Think of it as extra air you can breathe.  Move on .  dead weght

Post # 4
8669 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I am sorry that your friend is not returning your calls/emails. Is there anything at all that has happened to bring this about? She maybe waiting for an apology and is being stubborn and you not even know it. Not excusing her behaviour (which is childish) but there maybe something behind it.

The other thing I noticed in your post is that you call her your best friend yet you don’t even know her address. Sorry but that doesn’t sound like much of a relationship. it just makes me think there is much more behind this story than her lack of communication.

Post # 6
8669 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@mrsjjohnson2b:  That is really weird then. Could she be having serious money issues? Do you have any shared friends? and if so has she been in contact with them? Maybe you could use them as a go between? Get them to say that you are really worried about her because you have not heard from her etc etc.

Post # 8
13248 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

So weird.  Personally, I’d be annoyed at having to have a dress made rather than just ordering one, but I don’t think that’s a friendship ending thing. The lack of response is ridiculous and childish.  I’d try one more time, and leave a point-blank message requesting a response if she’s still planning on being in the wedding or even attending, for that matter.

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