Post # 16

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Busy bee
weddingbliss1028: I’m so sorry for your loss, bee. My friend also had a miscarriage on her first pregnancy, and just last night we were discussing her getting pregnant again. Like you, she said that when she gets pregnant again, she is going to be scared the whole time that something may happen. Hugs for you!
Post # 17

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Helper bee
- Wedding: May 2014 - Muhlhauser Barn
weddingbliss1028: I am so sorry to hear this. I agree with everyone else, let yourself cry & feel the pain associated with losing a baby. I had a chemical pregnancy in November after 16 months of trying and that devastated me. We managed to get pregnant again with our next IUI cycle. You will get pregnant again too and you will get your rainbow baby.
Post # 18

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Helper bee
theatrejulia: Thank you so much for your words!!
happyheartbee: Thank you so much. I’m sorry for your loss as well. We didn’t even get a chance to see our baby on an ultrasound. It’s just such a weird thing to be so pregnant and excited one minute and then not the next.
happy2bee: Thank you for your words! That’s what my hubby keeps saying..right now he’s the optimistic one of the two of us. Just can’t wait til this time is over and we have our baby
howsweetitis: Thank you! So sorry for your loss too. I’m already nervous about the future. Just hoping our time comes soon.
CoffeeBeanKate: Thank you! So sorry for your loss too. My mom was actually saying the same thing. She had very low progestrone when she was pregnant with my youngest siblings and had to take pills throughout both pregnancies. I am worried it might be genetic. I will speak to my Dr. when he calls.
elephantear: Thank you so much for your words <3
CityBearBride: MrsSeptemberPenguin: Thank you. I had no idea how common they were. Who kniew this process would be so hard especially when you want something so bad.
walk_by_faith: Thank you so much <3
jily: Thank you! That’s what my doctor keeps saying too. Hoping my time will come soon.
MiJeS1104: Thank you so much. I’m so sorry for your loss but so happy you are pregnant now! Congrats times a million! Hoping you have a happy and healthy pregnancy <3
Excited To Bee: Thank you <3
MrsLeb: Thank you so much. I will definitely be looking on the boards.
Post # 19

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Helper bee
natbrown0703: Thank you!! It’s really hard not to be constantly worried about future pregnancies now. Hoping your friend gets her rainbow baby soon and can enjoy her pregnancy as much as possible <3
amandaleaou: Thank you!! I’m so sorry for your previous loss. Hoping you have a happy and healthy 9 months ahead! <3
Post # 20

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Buzzing bee
I am so sorry (((hugs))). I hope you have been able to just take it easy these last few days. I can’t imagine how it feels to experience this type of loss but if you need to vent and be “selfish” right now that is your right. Focus on you and your needs and be gentle on yourself.
Post # 22

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Blushing bee
weddingbliss1028: I’m so, so sorry for your loss, bee! I know it’s hard when it feels like everyone you meet has the one thing you so badly want, but please do not lose hope! I would recommend joining the TTC after miscarriage thread on here; I think you’ll find a lot of needed support.
Post # 23

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Sugar bee
weddingbliss1028: I’m so sorry for your loss 🙁 *hugs*
Post # 24

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Busy bee
- Wedding: April 2015 - Anchor Inn, MD
weddingbliss1028: Ugh, this is so heartbreaking, I’m so sorry 🙁 I’m sure it will take a while to get over this loss but this by no means indicates that you’ll never get a sticky baby, so don’t let your head go there right now. Right now just allow yourself to mourn your angel baby. I’ve heard that many people get pregnant again soon after a MC so don’t lose hope! *Hugs*
Post # 25

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Helper bee
Oh, I am so so sorry:( Hugs and prayers to you:/ I have had several mc and they are never easy. And in all honesty, it does make you walk on eggshells with future pregnancies but that is normal. TTC after MC are very supporitive.
So sorry again.