(Closed) I had to replace most of Bridesmaids! (Rant)

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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  • Wedding: June 2012

I tried to see both sides of this but I can only see one, if someone asks you to be their maid of honor you should AT THE VERY LEAST talk to them, they have been avoiding her for months. Weddings take a lot of planning and September is only a few months away, she has ALOT of planning to do. if they don’t respond to her or even make any sort of contact with her then that’s where it would be ok to replace them. Why should she put her planning on hold and wait around for two people who won’t make an effort to even speak to her. Replace and move on, seeing as how they don’t care enough to reply they should have no problem with that.

Post # 33
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  • Wedding: October 2012

You did the right thing by replacing them. My bridesmaids are my best friends. If for months they didn’t return my calls, texts or facebook messages, I would replace them too. Because that’s not a friend!  Friends talk to each other and check in. I don’t talk to my besties every day or every week but when we contact each other we call or text back that’s what makes it a friendship.

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