(Closed) I hate her cats!

posted 4 years ago in Entertainment
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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ihatehercats :  Cats should never piss on anything inside. Something is not right there, perhaps in the way they are looked after. It’s also not normal for her to give the cats attention instead of you in the bedroom.

Move out.

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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ihatehercats :  Oh wait. I just looked at another thread you commented on. Did you say you’re a single father? If so, is your fiancee the mother, and does the child live with you? I’m not going to be so fast advocate moving out over some cats if there’s a child involved.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

1. When cats piss everywhere its usually either because their litter tray is not clean enough, there aren’t enough litter boxes for the number of cats (need 1 for each cat plus an extra),  they don’t like the location of the litter tray,  or they don’t like the litter . It could also be a medical issue and/or stress… if she gave a fuck about her cats she’d be looking into that.

2. Move out. Seriously.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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ihatehercats :  Well this is drifting off topic but I’d say all your efforts should be going into getting shared access to your child. Living with a bunch of unhygenic cats isn’t going to help your cause. (Just clarifying: not all cats are unhygenic – I have a cat myself – but your situation sounds unhygenic).

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Between this and your other post about household finances, I am struggling to understand why you even want to marry into this family. 

If you were my sibling or friend, id encourage you to take a step back from the relationship. It sounds like you’d be much happier and better off if you lived somewhere else. 

Good luck!

Post # 9
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Busy bee

I agree the cats going to the bathroom everywhere is not normal or healthy. That aside, stories about her cats shouldn’t be annoying you this much. It sort of seems like you’re looking for an out (an excuse to break up with her.) Maybe you’re getting cold feet? 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

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ihatehercats :  Ugh. It gets me so angry when people get pets and don’t look after them. So sad 🙁

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

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ihatehercats :  Sorry, I wasn’t referring to you.  I meant your gf and her family. They sound like irresponsible pet owners and that’s something that really bothers me.

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