(Closed) I hate it when my fiance….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Sorry you are having a rough day πŸ™

Have you tried talking to him about it?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My Darling Husband is always getting calls or texts and it drives me nuts! I always fake-threaten that I’m going to throw his phone across the room. Luckily, he knows now that he shouldn’t answer his phone if we’re having a serious discussion or if we’re out with family because it’s rude.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my hubby was checking emails with his iphone at our nieces 18th party last weekend – i told him to put it away before i threw it away

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Are we engaged to the same man?!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

Have you ever talked to him about it? My Fiance used to do the same thing until we had a talk about how it made me feel. He didn’t even realize that him always being on his phone was bothering me – maybe your Fiance is the same way?

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think I am guilty of this after I got my Iphone.  Fiance got one about a month after me and is doing the same thing.    We’re both being annoying.  lol

 

Seriously though, I think you should talk to him about it.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My FI’s parents do this. Last time we went home to visit them (which involves flying and then driving for 1.5 hours) they played on their iPhones in front of us for a good 3 hours after dinner. I was SO annoyed that I went upstairs to take a shower and paint my nails. Good thing we paid hundreds of dollars to sit here and watch you guys play Angry Birds! Ugh. Lol. SO feel your pain.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I hate his half-assed version of cleaning. I KNOW you didn’t clean the bath tub for the last four weeks because I can see the mildew growing on that bottle of shampoo that you bought and never used.

I also hate his video games. All of them.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I can’t stand when my fiance is on his phone too. And its not like he is talking to anyone, just looking stuff up or playing games. I find it so rude too. Don’t people know how to live now, without a phone?!?1

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

i can’t complain about the phone since i am just as guilty as him… 

but i do hate his e-reader. it’s everywhere we go. he can’t watch a movie and just watch a movie. he has to watch a movie and read at the same time. and i always tell him “if you are just going to read, I’m going to take the tv.” and he gets all huffy and annoyed.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@rosworms: Oh god. I am guilty of this. I can read the ‘bee, watch an episode of Glee, and carry on a conversation with Fiance at the same time. Drives Fiance nuts.

Our compromise is when I’m speaking to him, my attention doesn’t drift back to the computer or the tv. We discuss what we need to discuss, and my attention is on him. He doesn’t multi-task like I do, so he feels he’s being brushed off if my full attention isn’t on him.

We’ve only been living together 6 months, so we’re still working the kinks. πŸ™‚

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