(Closed) I hate it when we fight…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

me too..a couple of days ago, I had a really bad fight with my fiance and it shocked the both of us because I haven’t screamed or cursed like that ever. Something just snapped in me and I had to vent it out.

When we fight, we never curse each other out. We might curse in front of each other, but we NEVER curse each other out, like F.U. and stuff like that..

We also try not to let the fight go on the next day..so we’ll try to end the fight before going to sleep…which really helps in a lot of ways…

I hate fighting too. I promised him that I would never get that crazy again..because honestly, I shouldn’t be talking to my future husband in that tone of voice, or behaving that way towards him. I felt so ashamed and horrible for letting it get that bad. I don’t know what came over me. I just snapped.

All we can do is just learn from our mistakes and hope that we don’t let it happen again…

Hope you’re feeling better. Don’t worry. We’ve all been there <3

Post # 4
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow I am sorry to hear he has a temper when he is angry. Sometimes it just takes some cooling off. Hopefully you two don’t fight too often because then I may be concerned.

 I am waiting for a fight as soon as my Fiance walks throught the door but I will be the one losing my temper.

Sorry you are having a rough day. Hopefully it will turn around really soon. Wink *hugs*

 

Post # 5
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1752 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So much so that we don’t.

We can tell when the other is upset.  When they are mad upset, we walk away, and don’t provoke. Give it time, appologize for whatever portion of the disagrement was your fault & discuss.  When they are quiet upset, we ask what is wrong and talk about it.

My parents fought and fought and fought while we were growing up.  I never wanted that, ever. 

But it is sad to disagree.  The thing is, no two people will ever agree on everything, hence disagreements.  So long as you can move past them, no worries.

I’m sorry you had an arguement!  Hopefully it’s resolved soon.

 

Post # 7
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841 posts
Busy bee

I hate fighting as well. In all honesty, arguments of any kind are the reason why I never wanted to get married or involved in a long-term relationship in the first place. But I love my Fiance sooo much, and I have to come to terms with the fact that we are in fact- different people (in reference to being a couple). I feel much better knowing that I am not the only one out there who is facing similar issues such as this. Thank-You for this post :). *hugs to you all!!* 

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