(Closed) i hate men!!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m sorry. I am a neat freak and my Fiance is slowly picking up on my OCD LOL.  But there are times he drops his clothes and I have learned to ignore it. It’s on his side anyway.  i don’t stress it like wen we first started living together b/c I am the only one that is in a pissy mood b/c of it. Sometimes I clean it up for him and sometimes he does it himself but on his own time. I don’t want to nag him like a parent.  As far as the porn If my fiance still looks at it I woudn’t know.  He doesn’t leave any signs of it. If he did I wouldn’t mind as long as he wasn’t going to porn instead of me.

Hope you guys kiss and make up soon!

Post # 5
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400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Well you did see it up on the computer last night so maybe you should ask him about it. Maybe see counseling together about it.  I’m super sorry you are unhappy right now. ;-(

Post # 7
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

That’s difficult. I think the clothes thing was just a little blow up between the two of you, you know, just like another fight. But the porn thing would bug me too. I would speak up about it bothering you though–and not drop it. If it’s something he admits he has a problem with, tell him you’re willing to help him change, but he has to do something about it too, since it makes you feel inadequate or just plain bad.

Good luck! I hope you work it out!

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