(Closed) I hate my bf right now

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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109 posts
Blushing bee

I’m think you are being dramatic.   You may be in a boring place and feel lonely, but you are safe and can probably find a magazine or book to read or a tv to watch.  You have a Fiance who is so sweet to offer and come get you–focus on that goodness and your relationship with him.  You are an adult and, in the bigger picture, this is small potatoes.

Post # 4
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72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Honestly if I came 6 hours to see someone and they ditched me I would not stay around. That’s just plain rude, plus if you’re miserable there is no need to hang around.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would be upset as well. If I drove 6 hours to spend time with a friend and she ditched me to go on a date I would be PISSED. That is very sweet of your Fiance. Think it over and see how you feel in the morning. She may apologise. I would ask her about that nights plans and if she plans on leaving you alone again. If she is, pack up and call it a day.

Post # 6
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11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I wouldn’t stay anywhere I am not comfortable. Esp. after driving 6 hours & only knowing she was leaving an hour or so ahead of time. Not cool!

If my friend drove that far to see me I would be spending ALL day & ALL night with her. She has a week-2 weeks off from school to see guys.

 

Post # 7
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502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would be upset if my ‘bf’ ditched me when I’m from out of town and came in to see her -especially if i don’t see her often. If this is just some guy she’s going on a date with then I don’t get it. And if it’s important for her to see him because he’s special to her (and he’s also not in town) then she should have brought that up to you ahead of time and explained she would be busy that night. She shouldn’t have sprung it on you last minute. I would speak with her about it. I would probably be fuming because it seems so inconsiderate of her.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@SiriusOne:  I completely agree with this.  It sounds like the OP is being a little dramatic.  This hardly seems like a situation to be crying about. I could possibly see being a little annoyed, but crying about this is just a little over the top.  And why on earth would you be uncomfortable in your bestfriends home? Pour a glass of wine, read a magazine, and tell your bestfriend about herself later (when you’re not so emotional).

Post # 11
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720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’d be pissed and would tell my best friend I wasn’t happy. If she’s planning anymore trips out instead of spending time with you then I’d head home, but if not then I’d let it be and enjoy the rest of your trip with her.

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