(Closed) I HATE MY DRESS :(

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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9 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2010

girlfriend! You are the BRIDE! you are allowed to hate the dress. The quicker you accept that the faster you will start work on getting another…please! The time is now!!!

Post # 4
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3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

aww im sorry… what if u try something like this….

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Post # 5
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923 posts
Busy bee

I agree, with meticulousladybug. This is your wedding day, you should feel beautiful and amazing. If it’s in the budget to get a new gown, do it now. I had a small ceremony in Jamaica and had a hell of a time finding a dress on short notice. I bought one, HATED IT, and then went and got a different one a couple weeks before the wedding. I’m glad I did. It still wasn’t the dress I wanted due to time constraints but it was better then the first one.

Go try on some dresses and tell them you need something that can ship ASAP. then they’ll only bring you dresses that can be rushed. And lots of dresses can by the way, you still have some time!!

Let us know what you decide to do. You’re not alone…a lot of us have been where you are!!

Post # 6
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7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I got the 7-way bra, something like that, from VS- like the one in that picture, and actually folded the cups down (does that make sense?) so they are just under my breasts, and when I zip up the dress, they are supported enough because the dress is tight. 

Post # 7
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804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Can she sew in some cups for you? And yeah, I agree, if you have the budget I’d be looking for something that you feel fab in!

Post # 8
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151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@cbee Great idea! I’m hoping when my dress comes in I’ll be able to determine that I can go without a bra, but if that’s not the case I’ll try your idea

Post # 9
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I agree with the others. I hated my dress, you deserve to love your dress! Start looking for a new one now!

Try posting it on oncewed on something!

Post # 10
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722 posts
Busy bee

If it is just the fit then get something like this:

http://www.mygowns.com/flattering-me-longline-strapless-bra.html

There are strapless bras with low backs! 

 

If not, maybe you can find a sample dress or an off the rack dress. There are long white dresses that can be used for a wedding that aren’t a  “wedding dress.”

Post # 11
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814 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

i’m so sorry… i hope you feel beautiful on your day and can find a solution for your problem!

Post # 12
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4123 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It sounds to me as if the bust is just the icing on the cake for why you don’t love your dress. If it’s not right… it’s not right. You may not have time to order a new dress, but find sample sales, call all the stores and ask if they have any dresses they can sell off the rack, see if Davids has any new styles you like, check preownedweddingdresses.com, other dress sites, and the classifieds here. Try Craigslist and see if you have any bridal consignment shops in your area. Great deals can be found. 

I’m really close to getting a different dress myself… You deserve to always remember your dress with fondness! 

Post # 13
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69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Can you post up pics? Maybe you just need reassurance.

Post # 14
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9 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Pretty much every store I went into is willing to sell the samples off the rack if they fit you. Just scout around! Check out oncewed.com’s pre-loved dresses. You are probably in the game enough to know what you like by know- GO AND GET IT! I just exchanged my dress this week for one that I absolutely LOVE. Before that I was up at night agonizing about the dress that I previously picked. Get something you feel beautiful in, NO DOUBTS!

Post # 15
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41 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i was in your boat, and it seemed the more i tried to like my dress the more i hated it. its your day, get a dress you love. you have some time, not alot but some. alot of davids bridal gowns they have some in stock to sell right off the rack if you can afford it. check their website too cause they have a outlet on there and alot of dresses are only $99.00 if its not in your budget to buy a new one. good luck on whatever your decision may be 🙂

Post # 16
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t know if someone else asked this but can they sew bra cups into your dress? Can you post a pick?

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