(Closed) I hate my family

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

family and money issues can suck the life out of you – my sister has already told me that when our mom dies she is going to sue her estate and she hasnt spoken to our mom in almost 20yrs

i already told my mom not to leave me anything in her will, give my share to her only grandaughter (my only niece/brothers child) – i hate knowing im going to have to fight my sister in court to protect my nieces inheritance.  yes our mom is a bitch but shes a right thinking minded person when she signed that will so she should be allowed to give her $$ to anyone she wants

ugggh, money and family – hate dealing with this crap *hugs*

Post # 5
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

That’s a bummer, and I can totally relate. My Grandma, who I am SO close with, has children who haven’t spoken to her in years and say the most awful things about her. She speaks her mind, and can come off as very rude, but anybody who gives her a chance would know that she actually has a huge heart beneath that rough exterior.

Just be glad you didn’t turn out like this part of your family and do your best to ignore them, as tough as it can be. Personally, I’m not inviting one single person to my wedding that treats my Grandparents with such a lack of respect. I don’t need hateful and spiteful people like that in my life, family or not.

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

oh and i went though framily money rubbish about a year ago – an uncle in italy died and the sister he never spoke to for almost 40yrs suddenly popped up and emptied his place days after his body was found.   pity she wasnt around when he died as he was in his house for weeks before anyone noticed the smell but she managed to find his rolex collection (aunt was charged for theft when she tried to sell them)

Post # 7
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7689 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I never thought that kind of thing would happen in my family!  Boy was I wrong!!  It’s disgusting-Along with the selfish *&%%$ that do that!

Post # 9
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140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Yeah, it sucks to have relatives like this but they are just two uncles and a greedy woman who married one of them. They may officially be part of your family but I think it is a little bit harsh to say you hate your family because of that…

Every family has a black sheep (or two, or a whole flock) but the love and strength of the rest is what makes the real family…

Please, just ignore these corrupted individuals, don’t let them spoil your time with your grandmother, kill them with kindness/good manners/thoughtfulness – and even if they keep on doing what they are doing – trust me, part of them will be ashamed deep down and that’s not a pretty/easy thing to live with… Everybody gets what he deserves!

Post # 11
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276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I know what you mean. I’m a caregiver to my grandma and it disgusts me how some of my family flocks around her like vultures already thinking of when she dies. My aunt who is my grandmas daughter would never think of changing her life to be closer/take care of her mother but also already has “dibs” on some of my grandmas most valuable items. One of them that really pisses me off- She had the nerve to ask for my grandmas wedding rings from her second husband, the man who my grandma raised me with as if they were my mom and dad. She never even got along with him but says its owed to her because her sister stole the set my grandma gave her from her first marriage that was to HER dad. Sorry for my rant lol, but YA I pretty much hate a lot of mine too. Just thankful I’m not as low and shamless.

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