- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
holy threadjack, batman!
holy threadjack, batman!
So I also am hating my fiance’s idea, I understand that it is his choice as well as mine but he and i agreed to have a wedding that has purple and turquoise but he says he won’t wear a tux or anything unless it is entirely hot pink. I tried to talk to him about it and he says that there is no way he will wear anything but all pink no matter what, I don’t know how to compromise with him on this though, since he is so dead set on what he wants/
yyyya…… well ladies my Fiance suit is something I have NO SAY in and Im having a really hard time with it. Long story short its italian tradition (like IN ITALY) that the grooms suit is just as fancy and pricy as the dress…and Father-In-Law brought back material in the fall to have one made.
………you know that new trend with all the celebs with super shiny material? well those suits got nothin on this…. someone told me it’s looks like velvet its so shiny, like basically iridescent (black to silver) ….
My jaw dropped when I saw it (they thought it was because I was in shock it was so amazing…) I was like ya the shock part is right…. anyways, my dress is ivory and lacey and has crystals all over it and all I asked is when the time came for his suit please do an ivory shirt! well guess what…his parents freaked and basically jumped down my throat forcefully that it had to be crisp white and nothing else…. I then said at the very least since your going to look NOTHING LIKE THE GROOMSMEN, please do a violet tie?? so you can look like your part of the wedding??
……..Im 99% sure his father got the suit guy to make a black one…. Im so pissed. but I had a few drinkies the other weekend and kinda voiced my opinion and Fiance got sooooooo upset he wouldnt even talk to me because I hurt his feelings! He said how would you feel if I said those things about your dress? does what I want not matter? is this whole thing just about you and Im just a piece of meat to stand by for pictures? dont I deserve to look amazing??
and he’s right…… I just dont know how to feel about the suit because its just SO DIFFERENT then what Im used ot seeing. Im not saying its bad, its just not what is “normal” here in north america lol. I know in my heart it will look amazing on him, I just dont think he’s going to go with the rest of the wedding? lol know what I mean?
anyways, theres nothing to be said or done because its only going to cause hurt feelings, I just hope Im wrong and we all look great together. The Bridesmaid or Best Man are shiny…so I guess thats one thing lol.
………**I need a wine**
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