(Closed) I Hate My “Friend”…(long)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Drop her as a friend. Have Tom come over and hang out with you all. If you see her, be kind and ignore her.

Do not invite her to the wedding nor include her in planning. She is toxic

Post # 4
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128 posts
Blushing bee

I would try and be the classier person and say Hi and small talk but I wouldnt invite her to wedding…. however if she did start yelling at me in front of friends again I would probably snap and say something

Post # 5
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It is a good thing your Fiance stood up for you. I would have a heart to heart with him and maybe you two can decide what is the best way to deal with her. I have a feeling he is probably sick of her BS just like you. I would keep contact with her very limited.

Post # 6
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m sure that over time, the rest of the group will back away from her as well if that’s how she behaves in front of them.  Definitely don’t invite her to the wedding!  I had a sort of similar situation and Fiance and I ended up not visiting his best friend for a long time due to his wife’s rude behaviour (we used to be close with her but she was often out of line).  We eventually started going over there more often again since we missed him and decided to just be civil and polite to her, but it was clear that things had changed.

If it happens again, don’t be afraid to say something like, “Wow, what a rude thing to say” and move on with the conversation by talking to someone else.  She needs to be called out for being childish.

Post # 7
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5183 posts
Bee Keeper

Just slap the bitch! jk-kinda. You seriously need to drop her (then maybe slap her too)

Post # 8
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741 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Take the high road – you don’t need to fight back. You have the guy anyways, and she is just making herself look bad. Don’t feel like you need to stoop to her level. 

Stay classy. Cool

Post # 10
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584 posts
Busy bee

I don’t know what egg foo young is either, yet I’ve managed to do okay in life…weird! She seems super immature and jealous, and I would be cordial to her but also avoid her as much as possible. As long as you’re not the one sinking to ridiculous insults like her, you by far have the upper hand and come across as way classier!

Post # 11
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

She’s very, very jealous of you.  If you have to hang out with her (I would avoid it) and she starts in on you, just snicker/laugh, look at her like she’s nuts/hilarious, and walk away.  Show her that you think she’s ridiciulous by not saying anything at all.  It gets to people when they can’t get to you. 

She’s just making herself look bad by trying to make you look bad.  She really thinks that if she points stuff like this out, your fiance will be like “oh, I’m marrying the wrong girl…AMY YOU’RE THE ONE!  YOU KNOW WHAT EGG FOO YOUNG IS!!”  Ridiculous – just like her.  Ignore and try not to hang out with her.  She’s drama.

Post # 12
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2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

She’s not your friend. Stop reaching out to her. End your contact. She is not trustworthy.

I truly believe she’s just friendly because she has alterior motives. She is probably not over your Fiance. And who knows if she will ever be.

Post # 13
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2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@BackyardLoveBird:

She’s just making herself look bad by trying to make you look bad.  She really thinks that if she points stuff like this out, your fiance will be like “oh, I’m marrying the wrong girl…AMY YOU’RE THE ONE!  YOU KNOW WHAT EGG FOO YOUNG IS!!”  Ridiculous – just like her.  Ignore and try not to hang out with her.  She’s drama.

LMAO! I was thinking the exact same thing. She’s so lame!

Post # 14
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

She’s not just jealous of you, she’s actively trying to undermine you. That’s different because it screams dangerous behaviour. If what she did, didn’t have the effect she was hoping for…what comes next? Cut her right out and don’t think twice about it. If your friends saw that too, they’ll understand.  Ughh…what a horror.

Post # 15
Member
1562 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This woman is clearly a psycho.  Really, Egg Foo Young?  I just had to google it because I had no clue what the hell it was…

Post # 16
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I agree. Drop her like a hot plate.

I feel like I might have seen this in a movie though…. and it turns our the jelous ( i cant spell today) girl was killing everyone….

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