(Closed) I HATE myself for feeling this way BUT…..

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Zama Beach Club, Isla Mujeres, Mexico

Karma is a bitch, but you never know what people are going through in their personal lives. It sucks that she was so shitty to you, but maybe it was just a dark point in her life.

I think you should give her another chance. You said that she made a 180 when she met this guy, maybe she will be back to normal?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

Its normal to have those feelings – you’re not a bitch. 

Are you thinking about restarting the friendship with her?  I would let her know you’re sorry she got dumped and try to be there for her.  You can be the bigger person in this situation so easily. 

Post # 5
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

She got what was coming to her.  If she extends an olive branch to you though i would take it. Grudges aren’t worth the energy. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Also, because of the abrupt shift in her behavior, is there a possibility of substance abuse?  Maybe related to her BF?  Maybe she’s got bigger demons to deal with than you know about and could really use a friend right now.  

ETA: Nevermind; you confirmed that part!  If she’s been abusing for awhile, then this could be a wake up call for her.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Karma is only a bitch if you are 🙂

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

You are not an awful person and karma is a bitch. You are not to feel glad about other people’s disgrace but if you want nothing to do with this person, then just move on. I was on a similar situation before and my reasoning is this. If your frienship fell apart because of things that you both said and you couldnt make up then your friendship wasn’t that strong in the first place and those kinds of friends are supposed to go out of your life eventually.  

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