Post # 62
Wow, so much hate in this thread. I didnt realize this was a snark forum. OP posted a vent that is super intense, but clearly shows a parnter who doesn’t listen or take her feelings into consideration. Then she gets called a bitch for venting. Not classy. I wish I could vote down all the rude comments.
Doing ‘something nice’ usually involves LISTENING to what your parnter wants, not ignoring them like he clearly did.
Theamerella: It isn’t ‘thoughtful’ if she has made it clear she does not want to celebrate it!
It sounds like he doesn’t listen or respect your point of view. Just because society and rude women n on a wedding forum tell you that anything a man does on V-day is special doesnt make itnso. Unless your partner knows you think its special its a cop out and a cowards way to propose, especially the way he tossed the box to you.
I do wonder how you know it is a diamond. From his sisters comment? I think you were a bit too emotional to write the story out clearly, but I’m on your side. It honestly doesn’t sound like a good relationship, so you should think hard about how much of this is reflected in everyday life and how much is intensified because of the other painful situations like the passing of your father.
Post # 63
Sometimes, we treat our partners how we would like to be treated. OP, did you ever stop to think flowers, dresses, Valentine’s Day, etc. might be important to him???
You two have some serious communication issues. You both need to quit sulking and have a serious chat.
Post # 64
you should try to open up ur mind a little more and appreciate the good things he does for you.. :/ not look at the negative and what you think is right .. Sometimes ur right could be well just the opposite .. Good luck
Post # 65
We’ve gotten a lot of flags on this thread, so we are going to close it now for review.