(Closed) I Hate Wedding Planning

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I hear ya.  Everyone has been supportive, but I’m just over it.  I just want to get married and not worry about flowers, decor, or budget.  I just want to go on my honeymoon and be married to my Fiance. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

If this is how you feel, maybe take a little break for a week or so from wedding planning.  

Fiance and I have had almost a two year engagement, which for me meant starting planning right away ๐Ÿ™‚  …. About 6 months ago we were getting into several (unessary) arguments about details and both decided it was not worth the trouble, and we took a whole month off of planning.  When we came back to it we were refreshed and had a better perspective on the whole experience. 

 

I wish I could help you with the Bridesmaid issues.  Can you try to make a date out of you and your maids get together to pick their dresses.  Offer to take them to coffee or lunch and with plans of picking out bridemaids dresses?

Post # 5
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i know exactly how you feel. take a break! for at least a week, try not to even think about the wedding. i promise these feelings will pass.

Post # 6
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6825 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I sooo know what you mean.  I absolutely hate wedding planning.  I wish it was done already or just wish could hand the reins over (I do have a wedding planner) she has done quite a bit of work for me but haha wish could tell her here pay for it also.

 

Post # 8
Member
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

It was fun at first……I’m over it now.

Post # 9
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I don’t really want to put all my family crap on the www for anyone to see, but to answer your question in short: YES. I have had family drama. And I am so over wedding planning. Not just for that reason… for a lot of reasons. It is not as much fun as I thought it was going to be. 

In the end, I think (and hope) it’ll all be worth it… but to be totally honest… I am SO excited to have the wedding and then be done with it and just be married. 

Post # 10
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162 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I took the entire Jan off, I felt much better..

But now I came back from my break, I am still annoyed by all this. Hang in there!

Post # 12
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73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ugh…sooo sorry you are going through this. I am running into the same problem. My flower girls mom just hasn’t gotten around to getting the dress yet. Really? I sent you the link 9 months ago….then I resent it 6 months ago…..and just today….I sent it again. I’m not saying she has to buy it now, I understand little kids grow like weeds….but I gave her three choices and I said pick one…yeah, hasn’t happened yet. SHe also hasn’t RSVP’d to my shower….3 people in my family have spoken to her about it and nobody has heard back. Le sigh, I will NEVER understand why people wait until the last minute….

Post # 13
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321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

im so over it too. Everything wedding related has been making me way too stressed out and depressed lately. I know how you feel. i havent done much planning lately but it still haunts me and I still think about it everyday..also family drama with the future in laws arnt elping me feel any better. i just found out the other day that most of FI’s relatives arnt going to be in town when we get married even though we sent them save the dates a long time ago. Also, a bunch of friends are pregnant now so they say they are due in the Fall and might not come too..I feel like our wedding has become a big inconvenience now..I’m sick of it all! i really cant wait for the honeymoon..we’re going to Europe!

Post # 14
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474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

We have over a year to go and sometime I feel a little over whelemed but then I stop and think “is it THAT big of deal? It’s supposed to be fun and when it stops being fun is when I have to make it fun again. 

 

 

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