(Closed) i hate when FI is mad “/

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
395 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I get that he walks away from the argument in the moment. My Fiance does this because he feels that when he’s angry, he might say something he doesn’t want to say. However, we always discuss it later.

Post # 4
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

you need to figure out how to communicate when you are unhappy before the wedding, that’s my opinion

Post # 6
9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@missashley884:  my Fiance is very similar, i feel for you!

Post # 7
3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Try reading Men are from Mars… It goes a long way in explaining different male/female interactions.

Post # 9
3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ooooh, I’ll have to get that!

Post # 10
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My parents do the 10 minutes rule – my dad can walk away for 10 minutes, then they can discuss their feelings/communicate.  Generally it never takes the 10 minutes for him to gather his thoughts/calm down and he has stopped regretting going off on mom’s.  Works for them I guess, married 35 years this June.

Post # 11
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My Fiance does the same thing.  He’s got a nasty temper and tends to say things he doesn’t mean, so rather than say them he walks away.  Usually he just needs an hour or two to cool off a little bit, occasionally he needs overnight if it’s a really big blowout or touches certain hot buttons.

I think a lot of guys get in the heat of the moment and get so jumbled up and overwhelmed they just kind of have to shut down. I kinda get the same way- I’d rather walk away and take an hour to get my thoughts in order than say something that comes out the wrong way and makes a bad situation worse.

It sucks while you’re upset, but as long as you hash things out at some reasonable point (like, after an hour, or the next morning, not six months down the line), you just have to tough it out 🙁

Post # 12
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

@missashley884:  Yeah my Darling Husband is like that too. I don’t really like that he walks away, but it does actually work out better in the end in the sense that he comes back later and usually we both feel better about it.

However, my Darling Husband does the same thing where he never wants to discuss it afterwards, but sometimes it is necessary.

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