(Closed) I have a bridesmaidzilla! (just need to vent)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yikes… I don’t really have any advice on how to deal with her.

Are you or your Fiance close with her husband? Maybe you could go through him to calm her down a bit?

I didn’t answer earlier because I didn’t really have any advice, she sounds a little out of control.

Post # 5
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

She sounds like she’s used to getting her way.  She also sounds entirely too high maintenance for my liking.  I’m not really good at dealing with people like her because I am a very, very blunt person.  If it were me, I would end up saying something like “Hey, could you screw your head on straight and try to remember that this is MY wedding and not yours?  Also you’re bossy, aggressive and temperamental and quite frankly, I’m not sure if I feel comfortable having someome like that in my wedding party”

Post # 7
584 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would just tell her how it is.. It’s your day not hers. Tell her she can be like that for her wedding, but for this time its about you and ur Fiance. You can’t let her ruin your wedding day

Post # 8
672 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@ViaMinorViator:  My words exactly!!

Good luck with her. 

Post # 9
43 posts
  • Wedding: October 2012

She is just high maintenance.  At least she did try to do a shower for you, some bridesmaids don’t even do that.  But as far as her hair etc., then tell her to hire her own girl to come and do her hair.  Sounds like she should have enough $. 

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